How Does Domination and Submission Work Over The Phone?

We all know that domination and submission are totally fun and awesome things to play with in BDSM and fetish sessions, but sometimes folks ask me about how this sort of power exchange could possibly work over the phone and internet. After all, dubious folks say, the...

Submission to Mistress Harper

So, what does it really look like, when you ask me to take control over you and your masturbation? I know a lot of fellas are very curious, and want to know what the real deal is, before they pick up the phone and arrange a session with me, but the honest truth is...

BDSM Life Balance in 2020

Let’s delve into a little interpersonal work for a minute, here before the new year actually arrives, and work on our understanding of a work/life balance with some BDSM spice on top! We all know already that it’s important to balance your leisure time and...

Kinky Relationship Advice

Welcome to Ask Harper! Relationships can be confusing and terrifying, and sometimes you need an outside perspective. When you need kinky relationship advice, who do you turn to? Asking for help in your relationships can be the most terrifying thing you’ve ever...
Mean Mistress Philosophy

Mean Mistress Philosophy

Let’s talk about my mean mistress philosophy. I get a lot of folks who email me asking if I can be a mean mistress for them. So I always ask them what do they mean by “mean”? Because some people say “mean” when what they’re thinking...
Follow Harper Everywhere

Follow Harper Everywhere

Alright my bitches, I know you want to follow Harper everywhere. I can’t blame you! I’m awesome and hilarious, with great self esteem. Who wouldn’t want to be totally all up in the content I’m putting forth online? Losers, that’s who....