How Does Domination and Submission Work Over The Phone?

We all know that domination and submission are totally fun and awesome things to play with in BDSM and fetish sessions, but sometimes folks ask me about how this sort of power exchange could possibly work over the phone and internet. After all, dubious folks say, the sessions often involve touching and you can’t do that over the phone! So, how does domination and submission work over the phone?

Power exchange doesn’t require touching!

In fact, power exchange games don’t even require that two people be in the same room at all. Power exchange is just simply about who gets to say what happens, and who has to obey the directions and commands of the other person (or persons). Some of the most fun I’ve ever had with domination and submission has been long distance power exchange, and I’m a real life in person dominatrix who owns and loves to play with really nice whips, rope, and sex toys. I love my toys, but I love the power you hand over to me even more.

Domination and submission over the phone just requires that you trust me, and agree to obey.

Simple, right? Of course, and yet it’s also very complex. Power exchange in domination and submission can be as complex or as simple as you want it to be, but the reality of it is that trust all by itself is complicated. Questions about boundaries and limits need to be respected even for phone and internet based sessions, but things can be drastically simplified at the same time. The complexity of trust with the freedom of fantasy, because after all, I’m not literally there with the capability to punish you if you disobey. You could be a bad submissive and disobey, but the fun arises when you choose to be a good sub and obey me.

Domination and submission by phone can be the most fun you’ve had in a BDSM scene!

Skills that you’ll want to brush up on for a good phone domination scenario include your communication skills, imaginative fantasy storytelling, and your sexual stamina. We don’t want you to finish too soon, after all.

Listen to the most recent episode of my Adult Sex Education Podcast Whore School for more on Domination By Phone.

And call me! Call and let’s talk about your fantasies and desires, and test the limits of your ability to be good and obey your Mistress. Don’t forget the Sizzling Summer is still going on, get those calls in now and win free phone sex in September!