Kink Coach

Have you ever found yourself needing just some advice, or a friendly ear to help you hash out an issue in your life? Of course you have, we all have! Everyone finds themselves from time to time needing someone to bounce some ideas off of, or to help them figure out the tangle that their life has become. But what do you do if the issue you need help with is negotiating a new boundary with your Mistress? What if you need some insight into why you’re into what you’re into, and whether or not you should share your new kink with a loved one? What if your goal that you’d like to meet is something that society tends to frown upon? Well, that’s where you need a kinky life coach! A life coach with experience in kink, bdsm, fetishes, and is conversant with LGBTQIA+ issues, gender expression issues, and even with trans issues!

Hi, I’m Harper, and I’m a kinky life coach.

Kink Coach Harper 800 601 7259I’ve taken all the parts of life coaching, and turned them very deliberately and explicitly towards helping people with their kink and fetish issues. And with their gender expression and life transition problems, too! I can practically hear you asking “what’s a life coach?” A life coach is a person you can turn to for help, support, advice, and a listening ear. A life coach can’t solve your problems for you, but they can give you some insight and advice about your problems!

Imagine, if you will, that you find yourself on the cusp of a major life change, but you’d like someone to help you figure out all the moving parts, and provide you with the support you need to really dig in and make the change happen. You’d hire a life coach! To borrow from sports terms, a coach is a person who knows all about the game, they know the mechanics and skills needed to master the sport, they know how to do the things and they can teach you, the player, to play better. The game a life coach teaches you to play better is, well, life!

A kinky life coach can teach you to play your personal game of life better.

The reasons why a kinky life coach may be a better fit for you than a non-kinky life coach: well, what if you’re kinky? What if you have a fetish or sexual quirk that impacts your life? How do you find support and assistance without having to stop and define terms, describe what your issue is around your kink or fetish in a way that doesn’t feel an awful lot like having to advocate for your own right to be treated like a person first and a weird kinky pervert as only a far distant concern? What if you could go to someone and tell them “I’m about to make a huge life change, moving to a new city and trying to start over completely, but I’m so deeply submissive and shy that reaching out and making new friends is impossible for me, please help!” …and then that person goes straight to the real problem, which isn’t the part where you’re submissive, but that you need help making new friends and starting over in a new place.

For trans folks, finding a life coach to just help you be happy and healthy and successful without having to constantly educate about what a trans person faces in life can be overwhelming.

Find a kinky life coach so you can ask for help with advancing in your business career without having to discuss the state of your genitals first. Or talk about whether or not you really do want bottom surgery after all, and how conflicted you feel about the whole thing. Maybe you want to have help and support as you socially transition, and maybe have some advice, an action plan, and someone to be held accountable to in your journey. Maybe you need someone to help you navigate dating from a totally new-to-you point of view!

How do you book a kinky life coach?

Start by emailing me: Harper@enchantrixempire.com and let me know you’re looking for some help with your life. A kinky life coaching session is different from a regular phone sex session with me. For one thing, we’ll start by emailing back and forth, or chatting on skype about what your issue is and how I can help you. We’ll hammer out some details, like when we would have our sessions, and what the scope of each session will cover. The odds are very, very good that during our sessions you will not be masturbating or touching yourself, and orgasm is not the end goal of any life coaching session; the end goal is for you to reach your other goals in life! Sessions will be at least an hour, dedicated solely to working together to reach your stated goals in life. Life coaching sessions, like learning to throw a curve ball, can require a few lessons and sessions to see progress, depending on how you implement the advice and lessons learned during any given session.

To sum up:

Email me if you’re interested in hiring a life coach with direct experience and knowledge of kink, fetishes, BDSM issues, sex in general, and all GLBTQIA+ related issues. We’ll chat, and set up a time for an initial session. Expect life coaching sessions to last at least one hour; after each session I will email you with notes on the session, action points and things to work on going forward, and offer you a chance to give me feedback so I can alter the next session accordingly. You can cancel at any point, or choose not to move forward with further coaching.

Interested? email me!

Kinky Life Coach Harper

Fetish Mistress Harper 800 356 6169