BDSM Life Balance in 2020

Let’s delve into a little interpersonal work for a minute, here before the new year actually arrives, and work on our understanding of a work/life balance with some BDSM spice on top! We all know already that it’s important to balance your leisure time and...

Kinky Relationship Advice

Welcome to Ask Harper! Relationships can be confusing and terrifying, and sometimes you need an outside perspective. When you need kinky relationship advice, who do you turn to? Asking for help in your relationships can be the most terrifying thing you’ve ever...
Mean Mistress Philosophy

Mean Mistress Philosophy

Let’s talk about my mean mistress philosophy. I get a lot of folks who email me asking if I can be a mean mistress for them. So I always ask them what do they mean by “mean”? Because some people say “mean” when what they’re thinking...
Follow Harper Everywhere

Follow Harper Everywhere

Alright my bitches, I know you want to follow Harper everywhere. I can’t blame you! I’m awesome and hilarious, with great self esteem. Who wouldn’t want to be totally all up in the content I’m putting forth online? Losers, that’s who....

Pamper Your Mistress Today

A lot of men already know that the way to appease an angry woman is with flowers and chocolate. But did you know that you can use the miracle of presents for more than just avoiding sleeping on the couch? It’s true! You and your buying power can be leveraged for...