Thoughts on Domination Phone Sex

Thoughts on Domination Phone Sex

If you’ve been paying attention, you know that this month is all about Domination Phone Sex. So I’ve been doing just a little bit of writing on the topic. Barely any. Faint etchings on the wind, really. But I thought maybe you’d like to see what...
How Does Distance Domination Work?

How Does Distance Domination Work?

As you know, I’m taking a break from my weekly live podcast Whore School for the month of August, but that doesn’t mean I’m not endlessly interested in educating everyone on sexual topics! The last show of July was on Distance Domination, in fact,...

How Does Domination and Submission Work Over The Phone?

We all know that domination and submission are totally fun and awesome things to play with in BDSM and fetish sessions, but sometimes folks ask me about how this sort of power exchange could possibly work over the phone and internet. After all, dubious folks say, the...

Submission to Mistress Harper

So, what does it really look like, when you ask me to take control over you and your masturbation? I know a lot of fellas are very curious, and want to know what the real deal is, before they pick up the phone and arrange a session with me, but the honest truth is...

BDSM Life Balance in 2020

Let’s delve into a little interpersonal work for a minute, here before the new year actually arrives, and work on our understanding of a work/life balance with some BDSM spice on top! We all know already that it’s important to balance your leisure time and...

Kinky Relationship Advice

Welcome to Ask Harper! Relationships can be confusing and terrifying, and sometimes you need an outside perspective. When you need kinky relationship advice, who do you turn to? Asking for help in your relationships can be the most terrifying thing you’ve ever...