On Your Knees

I will freely admit that I do love to see a man on his knees. Especially a man who thought he was so strong and macho that he’d never be brought to his knees. Bring me a nice alpha male and let me play with him for a while. Let me explain exactly how I want to...

Your First (or Latest) Kinky Munch

So, you’ve decided to take the plunge and attend a munch. Excellent! The first step in getting out there and getting to know your fellow kinksters, your community, the perverts and strokers in your geographical region is to attend a munch. I highly approve of...

The Right to Serve

As you all know, I attend various kinky parties, workshops and events. I’ve run into a novel problem lately at these parties. I’ve actually had submissive males tell me that I should accept them as play partners and sexual partners just because they ask me...

Surviving Community Drama

Into every community a little drama eventually comes. It’s an inevitable fact of human existence that we like to to gather into groups based on shared interests. Whether it’s a forum for sissies to share tips on makeup or a blog where stroking perverts can...

Blame it All on Me

You may want to deny it, but we all know what you really are. Deep inside, you’ve always wanted this. You’ve dreamt of it, wished for it, and berated yourself for not having the balls to go out and get what you want. On some level, you want someone else to come along...

Sometimes I get in the mood to be a Mean Mistress

Granted, most of the time I’m not that mean. Stop laughing, I’m really not that mean! I like to keep things on the sensual side of the scale, so that even when I’m being strict or doing slightly cruel things to you, there’s an edge of sensuality to it. Plus, if I can...