Give me control over your cock

Granted, most of the time I’m not that mean.

Stop laughing, I’m really not that mean! I like to keep things on the sensual side of the scale, so that even when I’m being strict or doing slightly cruel things to you, there’s an edge of sensuality to it. Plus, if I can frame my cruelty or strictness in terms of doing what’s best for you, it’s just more fun for all involved!

Admit it, if you had a sweet and kind Mistress doing terrible things ‘for your own good’ you’d love it.

After all, everyone can think of times in their lives when people have had to do things that we didn’t enjoy but that did ultimately make our lives better. Learning the five paragraph essay format wasn’t fun and I didn’t like it, but wow did it make college much simpler! Going to bed at a reasonable time, eating a healthy diet and getting enough exercise are all things that sometimes suck, but we do them, or hire people to remind us to do them. You know, personal chefs, trainers and life coaches? They do mean things to us for our own good, and we thank them for it at the end.

And that’s how I approach being ‘mean’.

It’s for your own good, sweetheart. You see, if you’d just learn to stop chronically masturbating, or to masturbate the right way, or to accept and understand your place in the world, I wouldn’t ~have~ to be so strict with you. If humiliation is the only way to get you to pay attention to what I say, then I’ll just have to use that tool. If calling you cruel names, demeaning you at a party in front of all the other Mistresses or dressing you up as the slutty sissy that you really are is what’s required of me, then, regretfully and sadly, I’ll just have to buckle down and do it.

I’ll be mean for your own good.

And you’ll like it, won’t you?