Top Five Ways to Please Your Mistress

by | Jun 4, 2015 | BDSM

If you want to catch and keep the fickle attention of your Mistress, you’re going to need to pull out all the stops. Let’s face it: your Mistress is a busy woman with a lot of demands on her time and energy. Throngs of worshipful submissives flock around...

The Art of the Mind Fuck

by | Mar 17, 2015 | BDSM

There’s a problem with the entire idea of a Mind Fuck. I frequently have submissives approach me with a seemingly simple request: they want me to fuck with their heads. The problem with their request is that they’re asking for one thing and expecting...

Slavery and Personhood

by | Feb 3, 2015 | BDSM

As you all know, I am active in my local kinky community; I’ve had a few submissives ask me about taking the step into slavery. Locally there are quite a few dominants who keep “slaves”. Now, given that I live in Texas, and male dominants and female...

New Kink Alert: Fetish Fitness!

by | Jul 5, 2014 | BDSM

I’m not talking about having a fetish for people in workout clothes when I say ‘Fetish Fitness’. While I often have guys tell me they love the look of my ass in yoga pants, and that they’d really enjoy getting to lick my panties after a...

BDSM and Buddhism

by | Dec 26, 2013 | BDSM, Sacred Sex

I’ve been thinking lately about Buddhism and how it intersects with BDSM. On the surface, Buddhism doesn’t look anything at all like BDSM. Buddhism is all about meditating and being free from desire and doing Zen stuff, right? And BDSM is all chains and...