When you’re ready to mix up your masturbation, nothing hits the spot better than a little JOI. Turning to a trusted Mistress to control your cock just makes sense, and jerk off instructions can really amp up the heat and intensity. That’s why I have some JOI techniques to try today, to make your personal ‘me time’ a lot more fun and exciting. If you try any of these, leave me a comment and let me know how they worked for you!

JOI Techniques

Jerk Off Instructions work best when you turn off the part of your brain and mind that requires you be in charge. You’ll just have to agree to be obedient and more submissive to your Mistress, and to follow along with each of these techniques as written and directed, rather than inserting your own ego and control over what you’re doing with your cock. Don’t worry, you can mix and match these, or try them one by one, but adjusting the instructions to suit yourself kinda defeats the point of turning over control to someone else! Do your best to perform these JOI techniques exactly as presented here.

The Stranger

An oldie but a goody, The Stranger has been around for as long as the internet email chain has existed, and hearkens all the way back to the message boards of old. You’ll need some lube on hand, and something to put across your lap so you can’t see your cock or what your hand is doing. There’s two versions of this technique, one in which you sit on your hand until it goes numb, or you could use your non-dominant hand, or the hand that you usually don’t masturbate with. Block off your sight of your cock, use your numb hand or your off hand, and masturbate. Feel around until you locate your cock, and then wank, slowly. Even better if you both use your non-dominant hand and also sat on it until it went numb! Imagine that you’re getting a hand-job from an anonymous stranger!

Slow And Steady

For this JOI technique, either download a metronome app to your smartphone or find a metronome recording on Youtube. I like something in the 20 beats per minute range, because it’s agonizingly slow. That works out to one stroke per beat, which comes every three seconds. Only stroke to the beat, no faster, no slower. Keep it up, slow, steady, and inevitable. Try to last as long as possible with this pace, without cumming. You can edge, but don’t stop stroking. Just let it build and build, and stay right there in a lovely test of endurance.

Rinse and Repeat

Last but not least in my personal list of fun things to do with your dick: the rinse and repeat. I hope you like edging a lot! For this guided masturbation technique I want you to jerk yourself off to the edge of orgasm, and then stop. Once you’re on the edge, use the tip of one finger to rub very gently under the head of your cock, until the urge to cum recedes. Then, do it all over again! Set a timer for two minutes longer than your usual amount of time you spend masturbating, and the next time you use this technique, add another two minutes. Jerk off to the edge, then tease the head until you calm down. Rinse, repeat! Keep going, edging over and over again until your time is up with this JOI edging technique.

Ready To Let Me Direct Your Stroking?

You know what to do, when you’re tired of being obedient all on your lonesome, pick up the phone and give me a call. I have lots more JOI techniques I can talk you through, to really drive you to new heights of masturbatory pleasure. Try something new today, and let me know how it worked out for you!

Your JOI Mistress, Harper