When life is stressful and upsetting, it’s time to take your ‘responsible adult human being’ hat off, and simply be a slutty submissive that obeys every command your Mistress gives you. It’s amazing how just taking a little break and letting your mind stop being in charge can really revitalize and revive you, and set you up for a much more productive and happy day! Don’t you want to be happy? To boost your productivity, become a kinder, more gentle version of yourself, and release stress and tension? Well then! What you clearly need is some JOI edging.

What’s JOI edging?

JOI stands for Jerk Off Instructions. Basically cock control, where I tell you exactly what to do with your dick, and you obey like the good stroker you are. It’s great for you, because you don’t have to think about what to do next! And it’s great for me, because taking over your penis is fun for me. I like being able to tell you ‘slower’, ‘now squeeze’, and ‘now a little faster for me, just like that, so good for me…’ Of course, you know what edging is, surely. To direct you right up to the very edge of orgasm, and then have you stay there for me, lingering, so close! Delicious.

Do you like to prolong your masturbation?

Sometimes you just want to whack off and cum, get that quick hit of endorphins and be done with it. I get that! But sometimes what you need is to take your time, and really relax and enjoy the moment. A fast jizz hit isn’t a one size fits all solution. When you need to be taken out of your head, pushed into your body and your desire, and made to linger, feeling every bit of desire and lust until it eventually overwhelms you and pushes you over the edge, that’s when you need an extensive edging session.

Even if you’ve never tried submission before, you may enjoy it!

Giving up a little control over yourself and your life can bring you intense benefits, especially if you’re in a high stress lifestyle or career (or if you pay attention to the news and state of the world, that’s also stressful!) For some, relaxing and letting someone else be in charge for a bit can be deeply beneficial. If you’ve ever had a massage, you’ve experienced a little giving up of control. You lay down, and let someone touch and rub your back and muscles, manipulating your body’s endorphins and bringing you physical stress relief and well being. And while you lay there, you’re not in charge, are you. Your masseuse is! They move at the speed they choose, manipulate the parts of your body they choose to, and they decide when you’re done. You submit, and at the end, you feel better, physically and mentally. Same basic idea with a JOI edging session, only with me, you’re going to be the one touching yourself, but under my direction. And maybe if you’re good you’ll get to go past that edge for me.

There are many benefits to orgasm, but just as many to refraining from orgasm.

Be honest with yourself about what you need when you arrange your session with me. If you need to have the orgasm, the endorphins, the pleasure, the release and ecstasy, let me know! I can make sure that when you do finally cum for me, that you fucking love it. But, if what you need is an ongoing reason to be reminded of your body, your physical self, to be pulled out of your head full of worries and stress and bullshit anxieties, I can provide that, too. Chastity after edging can really push your focus into the physical, and help remind you that you’re not just a mind full of worry. For that matter, a ruined orgasm can give you some of the benefits of a full orgasm, while maintaining the desire and enhanced physical reactions of chastity. Just tell me what you need, and you’ll get it.

JOI edging can be so much fun for us both!

Let me take control over your cock, and tell you what to do, how to do it, and when to cum (or not). I promise you’ll have fun, and I guarantee I will  too!

Your JOI edging Mistress Harper