Let’s talk a little bit about what cock control is, and what it’s not. You see, cock control is actually very simple, and the name of the game tells you everything you need to know! Just ask yourself: who’s in control of my cock right now? For some the answer is ‘my own libido is in control’, and for others the answer is ‘I control my own dick, thank you.’ But some folks find that letting a Mistress or dominant woman control their cock is the way to go! You can gain all sorts of fun positive effects through cock control games, and a better orgasm is just the tip of the iceberg. As simple as cock control is, the nuance is where the fun happens, so let’s dive in and get down to the nitty gritty details.
What is cock control?
When you call a phone sex femdom like myself, and ask for ‘cock control’, what you’re really asking for is a type of limited power exchange. You give up control over a limited portion of your personal autonomy and in exchange you get positive benefits that improve your life. For a limited time and over a limited scope of behavior, you release control to your Mistress and simply obey her instructions. Like humiliation games, cock control can be easily added to other sexual games and scenarios, and the mixture of elements really amps everything up a lot. Simple cock control games can include JOI or Jerk Off Instructions, where you just obey the stroking directions given to you by your Mistress, and then get to cum at the end. More complex forms of cock control can include edging, chastity, and more!
You should know that I almost never keep things simple.
I do like simple cock control games, but I love the spice of life too much to really relish in only directing your stroking. There are so many positive things that you can get out of masturbation games and slightly more complex control games, plus, I really like them and they amuse me. One of the best things I love to do with cock control is to have you edge yourself. Edging, as you know, is the masturbation practice in which you tease yourself almost to the point of orgasm, but then stop before you cum. It is my firm opinion that masturbation without a little edging is just too boring to be withstood. Therefore, I tend to sprinkle a little edging into pretty much everything!
I tend to think of kink and the games we play together the same way I do cooking. Some things are like the base of the meal, the potatoes if you will. Solid, dependable, always a crowd pleaser. Good old fashioned mashed potatoes are nice, but I like mine with roasted garlic and sriracha on top! Fetish, kink, and sex games are the same for me. Sometimes I do go for the simple mashed spuds, but most of the time I’m gonna have to reach for some chili flakes and the good grass fed butter, just because I really love complex and deeply satisfying things. Does this mean that every time I’m going to serve you something designed to melt your tongue out of your head? Of course not!
We all enjoy different things in life. Cock control games are no different!
If all you want out of your morning is a nice simple relaxing wank, then of course that’s what you get! I adore cock control games like chastity and ruined orgasms and even a little smattering of CBT on top. But if all you want is that perfectly executed bowl of mashed potatoes done just right, then that’s what you’re gonna get. The best goddamn mashed potatoes (the analogy here is that it’s a jerk off instruction masturbation session, in case you got lost there) you’ve ever had in your life!
Are you ready to give me a little control over your cock?
Tell me what you want, how you want it, and what you’d like to stretch your taste to learn about in terms of new stuff! I’m always overjoyed to introduce you to new permutations of cock control games, and help you push past your previous limitations to explore and enjoy new wrinkles to your fascination with masturbation.
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