You probably have gotten the hint that I’m a huge fan of ruined orgasm cock control. If you’ve managed to avoid figuring that out, sorry to spoil it for you, but really owning and controlling you through your cock is incredibly high on my list of things I love to do. Ruined orgasms are quite possibly the only thing I like better than just controlling your cock, honestly. Let me direct your stroking and then give you a ruined O at the end? Oh I’m a happy Mistress when that happens! Let me tell you all about exactly why I love this niche kink so much.

It wasn’t long ago that I made the ruined orgasm cock control way of life mine!

I know, that might surprise you a little,  but it’s true. Not all that long ago in the grand scheme of things I made the ruined orgasm life my own. For the longest time, I loved a denied and delayed orgasm best, but then I really got interested in ruined orgasms and made the switch. I think what got me hooked was knowing what effect a ruined orgasm has on men. You see, most women who have sex with men know all about exactly what a ruined orgasm feels like from first person experience. I’m sorry to have to tell you, but most straight men can’t fuck well. Sex with straight men can be disappointing at best, and when some man manages to ruin an orgasm you were right on the verge of having, well. Once I tried it out with a partner, and then some clients over the phone, and I realized, this can totally be a way of life for me!

It’s not about being mean, or getting revenge for bad sex.

Or rather, it’s not entirely about being mean and getting revenge for all the bad sex I had in my twenties. It’s not about proactively punishing men for giving their wives, girlfriends, and partners bad sex. It’s about asserting my own personal power and control, while ensuring that the men that I give a ruined orgasm to will remember the control I have over them. If cock control is about your submission and letting me play with your dick, ruined orgasms are about my own pleasure and power. In the end, it’s not about you, per se. Not about you as a person, anyway. It’s bout me, an how I’m going to walk through the rest of the day knowing that you’re thinking of me and what I did to you. That lasting impression is the main thing I love about ruined orgasms.

I know there’s some men who only care about what a ruined orgasm can do for them.

My love of a ruined orgasm cock control session is pretty well all about me and my joy at this game; the power and control over your cock it gives me, and the way it makes me feel to do this to you is the basic motivation. But a lot of men want to know what’s in it for them? Well, first up, you get to make me happy and you get to hear me giggle and laugh when you ruin that orgasm for me. Not enough for you? You also get to learn how to become multi-orgasmic by using the ruined orgasm to retain your erection and desire as you stroke yourself to a second full orgasm for me in a short period of time. After a ruined orgasm, you get the same level of adoration and lust, the sheer horny energy of a lust filled college co-ed, and the lingering desire to wank again for your Mistress. That’s right, a ruined orgasm gives you a little relief, but you’ll still be horny and turned on. If you’re interested in cum eating games, try a ruined orgasm to maximize the chances you’ll still be turned on even after you ejaculate! For that matter, we can use ruined orgasms to start training you to decouple ejaculation and the sensations of orgasm, too.

There’s tons of benefits to you with ruined orgasms.

If you’re curious and think you’d like to try out a ruined orgasm, give me a call! I’d love to help walk you through your first ruined orgasm cock control session. I’m sure you’ll soon make the ruined orgasm into your way of life, too! Join me, and become a Ruined Orgasm fan today!

Your Ruined Orgasm Cock Control Mistress, Harper