Are you a big fan of begging for what you need?

I’d be willing to bet that some of the readers of this blog are really huge fans of begging. I have to admit that I am, too! I love getting to hear you beg, plead, and openly admit to all the things you really, really, REALLY want. Go on, beg for it! I love it! The act of begging, of putting yourself explicitly into the position of having to ask nicely for what you want and desire helps reinforce the power dynamic between us. It even works on a subconscious level: your mind knows that you’d never have to ask for a thing if it really were in your grasp all this time, so begging means you just can’t have it.

Say, for example, that I asked you to beg for permission to cum.

All the parts of your mind and self surely realize that you can, in fact, have an orgasm. But, the fun part of a Domination/submission power dynamic is that for the length of time that we spend talking, you’ve put yourself into the position of having to beg. Begging for what you need becomes a marker for your status, as submissive, inferior, lesser, and weak. You beg because you can’t get what you want any other way, and begging helps reinforce to your mind and heart that you’re in a submissive position. You beg because you’re weak and can’t just go out and get what you need. You can’t cum, because you need My say so and permission first.

I may be reading too much into this, but I don’t think so.

After all, power and control and trust and intimacy are my actual bread and butter. Just ask any of the lovely Ladies about Her opinion about you, begging for what you need. Go on, ask. I’m not the only Mistress that loves to hear that breathless catch in your voice as you drop to your knees and give voice to the primal need raging inside you. Beg for permission to cum, to lick up your mess, to worship my ass… Whatever it is that you secretly yearn for anyway, you can go ahead and beg for it.