So you think you’re one of the world class greatest, most generous lovers?
Let’s see if you really pass the test of generosity in bed. Are you really a good, generous lover, or are you a selfish prick in the sack? One easy way to find out if you’re a generous lover is to ask your partner, and assure them that you want them to be honest, because you want to improve yourself and be the best lover you can be. Just, one symptom that you may not be the best out there is if your partner giggles at the idea of you as a generous or good lover, so brace yourself for a little humiliation.
A generous lover always orgasms last.
It’s a well known fact that once a man ejaculates, it’s all over. The trope of the male lover is that as soon as he gets his, he’s no longer interested in sex (until he ‘recharges’.) The selfish quick cummer finishes up, sighs, and rolls over and goes to sleep, leaving his partner unsatisfied and unfulfilled. Fellas, you may want to learn some control, and cock tease edging games can give you the fortitude to last longer.
A generous lover knows how to use their whole body to please their partner.
I’m talking oral, guys. You need to get you mouth down into the action and lick that clit. Go for the labia, the vagina, the entire vulva region. Tongue, lips, mouth, and, heck, get your fingers involved too! It’s about more than just your dick, men. Penis alone will not earn you ‘Generous Lover’ cred.
A truly generous lover knows when to get out of the way.
Sometimes, what you’ve been gifted with is just not enough. You may be too small to please her, you may chronically cum your pants at the mere thought of her pussy, and you may just really suck at oral. Maybe you’re just really not very good at fucking. When that happens, you need to shelf the ego and get the fuck out of the way. Make room in the bedroom for a stud cock. Let her know you’d be willing to step aside for a real man with skills in the bedroom. Be the generous lover, and call for the stunt cock.
Oh my what a great post about being a generous lover ad you are spot on about them cumming last, knowing how to use their whole body to please a woman and knowing when to get out of the way!! I think most guys feel they are generous but if you ask their women they would tell a diff story! I hope the guys who read this become generous lovers!
There is nothing sexier than a generous lover. Nothing. Knowing your limits and being graceful about admitting them and then finding a workaround? Hawt.
The phenomenon of losing interest in sex after you come is not exclusive to men.Many women are not into returning the favor after your jaw and tongue are exhausted from getting her off.But still, its called generosity for a reason…..ladies before gentlemen.
And this is why Polyamory works! See, you use your mouth to get me off, then my other lover who gets off on being objectified and used uses his mouth to get you off, and gets off himself at the same time! win, win, win!
I wish more men were generous or at least submissive enough to care about the needs of their lover in bed. I find at least many of the guys I dated in my early 20’s only cared about pleasing their own cock. However, I have found that older guys which tend to be more experienced have cared more about how many times they could make me cum. So, I guess wisdom and age do in fact go hand in hand. But, perhaps we can teach the younger guys some cock control early?
I think helping those young “studs”, the ones that think they’re all that and are ultimate lovers, to lower their egos a little and step back from the overwhelming need to be the man in the bedroom would be all to the good. Fellas, calm ‘yo tits. You’re not all that, and learning to step back and not be in charge all the time will help you live longer and be happier, plus the women in your life will be happier too!