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If you haven’t explored your own ass yet, allow me to encourage you to do so.
If you’ve never played with your own ass before now, boy are you in for a fun time! I’d like to have you lay back, get comfy and take your time. If you’re feeling squeamish, feel free to use a glove (which, if you’re a bit jaded with your own fingers, adding a glove to your play can change the texture in interesting ways!) In fact, a glove is my first recommendation for a sex aid for anal fun.
Start with the simplest of all toys for your ass: your finger.
Some people remain convinced that assholes are dirty and gross, and not to be played with, either. Those people are wrong, but hey, no judgement here. If you’re worried about getting messy, use a glove. Slide on a non-latex glove and start exploring! I like to combine a glove with copious amounts of lube, usually silicone based for just some gentle stroking and exploration. The slick slide of super smooth digits against all those fantastic nerve endings will send you straight to ass play heaven. Take your time, explore, and don’t rush. Just stroke and rub and get used to the sensations.
There are a lot of improvised toys that people use for ass play.
Here’s my advice on improvised ass toys: don’t do that! Unless it has a flange or well attached cord, improvised toys can take a surprise trip deep into your ass where it’s deeply difficult to get them back out again. You see, your ass is really really good at keeping things in until it’s time for them to come out again. When you get turned on by ass play, your anus will clench in a delightfully rhythmic manner, one that can just kinda suck a toy inside you, past the reach of your fingers.
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If you’re looking to invest in good sex toys for anal play, there are a few companies I trust.
For fantastic, high quality silicone toys, look no further than Tantus. I adore them, their toys are amazing, and there’s no offgassing, no weird smells, no strange burning sensations and their toys are sterilizable.
Check out Aneros for insanely high quality prostate toys. Guys, if you want to enter orbit without the use of a booster rocket, get an Aneros.
And of course, for all this fun, you’re going to need high quality lube. Check out Boy Butter and Dude Lube. Remember, silicone based lube on a silicone toy is bad news and will degrade your toys, so go for water based all the way! Dude Lube makes my personal favorite lube, Ride.
It would be remiss of me not to mention one more important sexual aid for anal pleasure.
An experienced, enthusiastic, knowledgeable and talented guide. Interested in exploring anal play? Well hello there! Any of the LDW Ladies can help you and, may I suggest you give me a call with all your ass questions.
Thank you for your recommendations. I’ve been seriously contemplating the purchase of an Aneros…
Ms Harper…great post. I know for me my plunger handle has provided me a lot of anal fun 🙂
Bought the Naughty Boy and love it.But,I need to graduate.I’m torn between the Rude Boy and the Aneros vibrating black Progasm.Never dreamed I’d enjoy anal play,but now I think there is a strap on in my future!
Oh, you got my attention with the strap on comment… 😉
I have to admit I’m a fan of vibrating toys in general. Why not get one, then in a couple weeks, pick up the other one too? Variety is the spice of life, and of sex games.
I did it! I ordered an Aneros last night…
congrats, darling! You’re going to love it!!!
Will do Harper.It takes a while for ones bottom to accept pleasure.But,once it arrives….you understand what all the fuss is about.
Thank you for your recommendations. I’ve been seriously contemplating the purchase of an levett…
while it can be tempting to get a pelvic floor muscle training device and shove it up your ass, I’d recommend against it, as it does not have a flange. deliberately flexing your sphincter can accelerate the tendency of toys inserted anally to ‘creep’ upwards, deeper and deeper. IF you use a toy like this in your ass, make sure to keep a good grip on the little antenna that protrudes.
I did it! I ordered an Aneros last night…but i like Levett.hk
Pretty effective filters you’ve got, to have found a comment on a blog mentioning one of your products. Fair notice to other readers: I removed a link to the levett store on this comment.
Thanks for taking the time to discuss this, I feel strongly about it and love learning more on this topic