For those interested in exploring strappon play for themselves, the Share by Fun Factory could be a good starting point.

But then again, it might not be a good starter toy. I have a Share, and I adore mine! I love to play with it, I love to wear it and taunt my lovers with it, I love the feel of it, the weight and heft, everything about it I simply adore. As much as I love my Share, I have to tell you about the potential downsides to it.

The Share is a silicone toy, with a matte finish.

This makes it incredibly elegant and safe. Silicone toys are very easy to clean and keep sterile, they’re boilable, you can bleach them, and they’re durable as heck. That matte finish makes the Share just look nice. It also means that you need to use a ton and a half of silicone safe lube! The matte finish is not as slick as the smooth finish like a Feeldoe has, so you must use more lube. You cannot use a silicone lube on a silicone toy, unless you don’t mind ruining your toys.

One potential design flaw in the Share is the narrow neck between the shaft and bulb.

The Share is designed to be inserted into a woman’s vagina and utilized as a strappon style dildo. It has an overall length of roughly nine inches, with a circumference at the tip of five inches, slowly increasing in girth towards the base. The neck between the bulb and the shaft is narrow; too narrow, in my opinion. The silicone shaft is heavy and solid, so once the toy is inserted it tends to droop downwards. I have a leather harness from Extreme Restraints that I use with my Share, so the droop is minimized, but some reviewers have mentioned that the neck is an issue.

I’ve known a few other folks who have the Share and have enjoyed it.

Women with larger vaginal openings, or who have experience with large cocks or other, ah, activities that can stretch things out, may have an issue keeping the Share properly seated. I have a smaller than average pussy (so everything feels bigger to me! lol), so the Share stays very securely in place for me. I use the harness with mine just to combat droop; some women may need to use a harness when pegging their partner to prevent the Share from being pulled loose by the suction of the male’s ass.

Now that I’ve explained all the negatives, let’s go over the positives!

The Share is a heck of a lot of fun. I mean, it’s just plain fun to bend your partner over and fuck them, especially when you can feel every twitch of their ass on your cock. It’s a huge rush to be able to feel so viscerally exactly what’s going on under you. That solid heavy silicone transmits sensation very well, meaning that every time my partner clenched, I could feel it. Add in the sounds he made from the stimulation in his ass, and I was in pegging heaven.

I heartily recommend the Share to people looking for a good silicone double ended dildo. It’s fun, easy to clean and maintain, transmits sensation well, and with the addition of a good harness the negatives in the design are mitigated handily. If you or your lover are curious about a good pegging, ass fucking or cock sucking fantasy adventure then you should look into the Share by Fun Factory.