As you know, Whore School is your live adult sex education podcast hosted by Yours Truly, Mistress Harper! I’m a professional phone sex femdom with decades of experience in BDSM for fun and profit, and I put my skills out there to help kinky perverts have a lot of fun and avoid the main issues with some kinky games. Chastity is one of those fun games that a little education and forethought can really help enhance and make safer. Give the entire show a listen and enjoy some of the side tangents, too.
 

Chastity on Whore School

 
I do need to mention that there is a content warning in the show, at the 25 minute 20 second mark, through to 27 minutes 20 seconds, there is a bit that may be upsetting to people who have a penis. It is a specific warning about why you should NOT try to stick your penis through the bars or gaps in your chastity device, because you can cause real damage to your precious prick. Want to find out more about Chastity? Listen here:
 
Listen to “WS 462 Chastity Games” on Spreaker.
 
Despite the need to warn novices to chastity play about some of the pitfalls, it’s not all doom, gloom, and fear.
 

Why Chastity?

 
Chastity is a type of cock control and orgasm control that can be played between two or more consenting adults. One person agrees to let someone else have the final say over whether or not they get to cum, and even whether or not they get to stroke or even get erect at all! It is the ultimate in D/s play for many fans, because it makes a fantasy dynamic very physical and present. From a mental game or fantasy to a real device literally attached to your penis, for the purposes of controlling you and your penis: no wonder people love to play with Chastity.
 

Chastity Tips From a Femdom Mistress

 
I’ve been playing with cock control for a while, so of course I have tips for starting chastity. Start out by getting a device that fits correctly. If you can take the device off without unlocking it, or otherwise get access to your penis without taking it off, it’s too big. Along the same line in the other direction, a device that is too tight can damage your penis, too. Cheaper chastity devices can be fun for a couple hours on a weekend, but for long term use invest in a higher quality chastity cage. Plastic, resin, and 3D printed cages are cheap and can be a good way to dip a toe in, but if you want to wear a cage longer than just a couple hours get yourself a well made steel and chrome plated device. Inspect your device to make sure there are no rough spots or spurs, and remember that if your cage hurts, fucking take it off.
 

Want More Guidance? 

 
You’re in the right place if you’re looking for more help with your chastity journey. Listen to the entire episode, because I give my very best advice for how to manage long distance key holding for chastity games (without having to trust an app controlled electronic lock box!); of course, you can always contact me to arrange key holding and chastity guidance one on one. You may think that some of my strictures are too much to deal with, but I take your safety, health, and comfort very seriously, so I won’t compromise on things I think could be harmful to you. We’ll do chastity together, you’ll enjoy feeling controlled and owned, and you won’t wind up with a boo-boo on your willy in the end.
 

Your Chastity Mistress, Harper

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