It’s Pride Month, and that means we’ll be out in our communities celebrating and having fun! It’s also June, so we’ll be enjoying the run up to summer at the beach, the pool, and the club scene. Why not explore a little gender queer sex this month and really ramp things up several notches? Vanilla straight sex can be great, but I have to admit I like my sex spicy and unexpected. Salted caramel with chili flakes on a decadent full flavored vanilla bean gelato served to me by a naked cabana slut! Bring on the unusual gender expressions and uninhibited exploration of our bodies!

Ditch The Vanilla

Vanilla sex between cis hetero partners is fine, as far as it goes, but there’s so much more in the world to explore. I’ve met straight dudes who have never in their lives played with their ass, and let me tell you, that’s just tragic. Imagine being so set in your ways and certain that you’re “just” a straight man that the very idea of a little anal exploration locks you up like a rusty chastity cage. Break out of the cis/het narrow little box and try something just the tiniest bit daring this month! Touch your butt while you jerk off for me.

Bring On The Fruit Syrups!

Touch your butt. If you’ve never done that before, it can feel so weird and forbidden, but I promise it’s not. Do it in the shower, just reach back there and rub your finger around your cute little hole. For the truly daring, grab some lube and a dildo, and let’s open you up! Anal sex does not make you gay, you silly goober, especially if you’re doing it for your Mistress. Sex between a man and a woman, even if the man’s taking a strapon cock up the ass, isn’t gay sex! It’s queer, and if we’re messing with your gender expression, it can be gender queer sex, but that’s a level of care and concern over the names and labels that I prefer to leave out of the bedroom. It’s fun, is what it really is, and you’ll love it.

Gender Queer Sex

Even while I love clearly naming things and understanding what’s going on on a meta level, when we get down to things the words we call things don’t matter. Queer just means ‘not het vanilla’, and gender queer adds a layer of fucking around with gender expression. I want to put you in my panties and make you kneel in front of me. I’d love to see your eyes while you beg for my cock like a slutty submissive sissy girl. To have you flat on your back while I fuck into your body with my strapon cock, and to see your face when you cum for me like this? Hot damn yes, now that’s gender queer fucking sex!

Sissy Pageant Deadline Approaches!

Speaking of gender queer fun and games, don’t forget that the Sissy Pageant deadline is fast approaching! You have until June 15th to enter to win an hour of free phone sex. Not a sissy? That’s ok, you don’t have to be! Bring your beard and hairy chest, just slip on some panties and take a few pics for me. I mean for us, as a whole, not just me. I do love men in panties, but, oh you know what I mean! Join the Pageant and have some fun showing off for all of us, and win prizes at the same time. You need to have both your pictures and your questions for the pageant completed before Sunday.

Happy Pride, and enjoy your gender fuckery and wild sex!

Your Gender Queer Mistress, Harper