Have you ever thought about hiring yourself a life coach, to help you reach your goals and change your life? It’s not uncommon, and has become quite the thing to do! Now, what about those goals that would make a nun blush, a sailor swear, and your general run of the mill life coach run away screaming? What if your greatest goal in life is to become a better submissive, or a sweet sexy sissy, or to fully transition into the woman you are inside? Who do you go to for help, support, guidance, and advice? The answer is obvious: you come to me for kinky life coach advice and guidance.

Are you at the point in your life where you need to make a change?

It’s terrifying, isn’t it? To feel like you’re on the verge of a new life, a new you, if only you could break the inertia holding you in place. If you can find the energy to just start your new life, you can finally break free and become the best version of yourself. But finding that energy is so hard, and sustaining it? Feels so impossible, doesn’t it. Besides, you may have a goal, you might know the endpoint you want to reach, but all those steps in between seem to swim in front of your eyes; how do you make a plan to get from Point A to Point B? You get yourself some help, that’s how.

So, you know you want to change your life.

Where do you start? You need a guide to changing your life, someone who has experience with life changing events, someone who can lay out for you a simple and clear path to get from where you are now to where you want to be in the future. Hi, it me! Ok, let’s back up a step and get down to some facts about why a life coach, guide, guaranteed kinky life advice dispenser, and all around factotum is a good person to have access to. The reason why you have trouble making plans, visualizing your end goals, and even beginning to make your life match your dreams: you’re too close to the situation.

What do you do when you’re too close to a situation to make good decisions?

You get some distance, of course. Everyone knows that when you get bogged down in the details, facing overwhelm and upset, you take a break and back off and let off some steam. Give yourself a break from the stressful situation and go looking for an outside point of view. The main problem with taking a break from the planning part of your big life change is that it’s very easy to let that break just drag on and on. Procrastination becomes so seductive, and then there you are stuck in the same boring old life! Furtively hiding your dreams from everyone, and pining for the Real You that you’ve smothered deep down inside yourself.

You need a kinky life coach to help you build the life you truly deserve and need.

Here’s why a dirty, kinky, adult life coach is the best possible person to have on your side: no matter what your dream life goal is, I won’t judge you, run away, or flinch. There’s no end goal too weird for me, and nothing you say to me will be upsetting, shocking, or “too much”. You want to be a better sissy? Sweet, let’s talk about goals in terms of six months, a year, five years, and so on. Let’s build a vision of who you want to be and then break that down into manageable chunks. You want to work towards transitioning fully? Awesome, let’s do that! You want to become a professional submissive in pornos and perform live at kinky conferences and events? Great, let’s talk about gimp suits and performance anxiety.

In addition to a totally judgment free atmosphere, you need a coach who has the know-how to actually build workable plans.

You want to be a pretty sissy? It doesn’t happen overnight. I know what changes need to happen first, and what changes can’t happen until after other issues have been dealt with. You want to loose weight, stop smoking, come out to your friends and family? There’s a plan for that! Want advice on how to bring your feminized self into your every day life, without totally destroying your life in the meanwhile? I have you covered! You can embrace your dreams and go for what you want and need, with some help.

A life coach is a person with the needed distance from your life, along with the knowledge and skills to create workable plans.

That’s me. You can’t scare or offend me, I’m not caught in the day to day drama of your life, and I know how to create workable plans on adjustable scales to meet your life goal needs. You should book a session with me to discuss what sort of coaching package would work for you. Daily, Weekly, or a Bi-Weekly session? How much oversight, accountability, and guidance do you need? Let’s chat and work out your customized package!

Your Kinky Life Coach, Harper