For a lot of people who are exploring the wide world of kink and sexuality, the question of “am I ready for this?” is common, no matter what ‘this’ is! Don’t worry, your doubts don’t mean that you’re not ready, they just mean you’re a fairly typical human being about to do something that goes counter to your social conditioning. The answer to “am I ready to be feminized?” is a resounding YES! Of course you’re ready! In fact, asking the question at all means you’re ready. I’ve had a lot of sweet feminized sissies come to me for guidance over the years, and I can tell you that your curiosity and desire for this fetish isn’t going away, and, yes, it’s time for you to embrace the sissy life!
How often do you daydream about being feminized?
There are so many sissies who while away the hours in dreams and fantasies that revolve around living a sissified life. Even before the sissy takes the plunge and buys their first pair of panties, the fascination and fantasies are there. If you catch yourself idly musing on what color panties would look best with your skin tone, or wondering where that stylish woman you saw at lunch got her outfit, or how you could get a smokey eye and sharp eyeliner wing so you, too, could slay with one glance… well, you’re spending a lot of your mental energy and time on fantasies of feminization.
Feminized sissies run the gamut!
From the pure sexual fantasy that gets you so turned on and makes you cream your panties to the mundane day to day life fantasy of just living as a sissy all the time, the fantasies that get sissies and feminized men so distracted are widely varied. There is no one true way to be a sissy, so if you’re worried about that, don’t be! Some sissies dream of just panties and a little humiliation as they jerk off into them, while other sissies daydream about full feminization from head to toe and a strong, alpha male boyfriend to hold them tight. What you dream about when you’re alone is perfectly suited to you, and doesn’t have anything at all do to with whether or not you’re a ‘real’ sissy. And it definitely doesn’t have anything to do with whether you’re ready to be feminized.
For a lot of the people who dream of being feminized, there’s an element of control and power in their fantasies.
Some fantasies revolve around the exchange of power and control, even in sissy fantasies. The social conditioning is so strong for so many people that they need some outside force to push them into the behavior they secretly crave, so that they can have plausible deniability. The shame of wanting to be feminized, dressed up, can be so overwhelming that many sissies never act on their fantasies. Those sissies need the added element of coercion, of being made to dress up, pushed into panties, and being given no other choice but to agree to put on the slip and pantyhose. There is nothing wrong with this need!
If you need someone to help push you towards your sissy fantasies…
You’re not alone! Lots of people need a little extra help to get past their own shame, fear, and guilt. It’s a deeply human trait to want to fit in, and to fear sticking out too much; nothing sticks out from the crowd more than going against what society says you’re supposed to wear, enjoy, and crave! Pushing the gender limits can be very scary, but it’s worth it in the end. Pushing those limits at the firm yet gentle command of a Mistress can add a layer of spice to your fantasies, and absolve you of all the responsibility! Don’t feel guilty for wanting to put on panties, it’s not your fault, the Mistress made you do it!
So, are you ready to be feminized?
I think that you are. I think you need this so much that you can’t stand it. I know that you’ll love it, and come to crave it. I know that every time you put on a pair of panties you’ll get wet, and turned on, and you won’t be able to help yourself: you’ll touch yourself through your panties for me. And I also know that you want to pick up your phone and call me, so I can tell you to put on some panties for me. I love the way you look in panties…
xoxo, Your Feminization Mistress Harper
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Ms Erika/Ms Cindy/Ms Olivia/Ms Delia/Ms Erin and Ms Alyssa have done this to me as I did the feminization training program with all of them. They now have me wearing panties/bras/breast forms/dresses/wigs/lipstick/makeup/blouses/leggings/yoga pants/boots/heels/perfumes and lotions. My friend also has done this to me as she’s selling women’s clothes and and has me buy items mentioned above. She told this is who I am and become along with accepting this. She’s taken pictures of me with her phone dressed up as well measured and fitted me in her old bras. She’s married but told me not to worry about her husband or care what others think anymore. She said this is fun for her to do this and good for me. With all of this happening I’m her cream puff girl forever and no longer boyfriend material anymore as she has her nails dug into me with no intention of ever letting me go and wrapped around her fingers
Ms Harper,
Nice informative post, as you point out not all feminization was created equal and that you cannot judge your feminine fantasies or actions to others to evaluate your “sissy-ness”
Along with your podcast, Whore School this is a great companion piece, as you talk about and teach about many sexual interests. Thank you for this! See you around the Empire!
You know my opinions about one size fits all anything! Tailored is where it’s at!!! Feminization can and should be tailored to fit your individual needs and desires. A flat format fill in the blank program for anything is doomed to failure, and off the rack? Please no.
Remind me, next time I see you, to give you a great big hug.
Mistress Harper, you are my feminization coach. I need to talk with you, as I need more training to become a better sissy woman. I thank you for all you do to help me. .
Oh yeah I dream and fantasize about being just that feminized and turn into a girl/woman with hormones and learning about being a woman
Yes I am always ready to be feminized and it is always been part of my fantasy to learn what it feels like to be a girl/woman.
Mistress made me do it! OK, W/we all know that’s a lie, but it makes me feel better, and it also allows me to feel i’m pleasing Her, i guess.
some people need the plausible deniability of culpability to feel free to indulge. and then there’s others that clearly need to be held accountable for every single decision they make!
i somehow feel that i should not be allowed the former while the latter is strictly enforced.
Well then, I’ll hold you strictly accountable for what you choose of your own free will to do!