Why do I want you to both submit to me and worship?
Because those are two different actions, silly. Submission is putting your own will as secondary to someone else’s, namely, mine. Worship is to revere, to view with awe and reverence. It’s possible to be both reverent and refuse to submit. I’m greedy, I’ll admit. I want you to both submit to me and worship, and I expect you to bring your A-game to both of those activities.
When you submit to me, you’re choosing to place what I want above what you want.
In the moment, you may want to jerk off and take a nap. But I want you to wait, and remain on call to serve my whims. Who wins in this tug of war of wills? I do, ideally. However, if you come at your submission with an eye towards worship, and set this as the center of your motivation, you’ll discover that your submission becomes a type of service instead of a terrible chore you have to complete. Instead of doing tricks to earn a reward, the trick becomes the reward. Submit to me with worship in your heart and you’ll discover that your submission has become something wonderful.
How can you best worship me?
Simple! Ask me what I want. Put your Mistress at the center of everything you do, think, and say. Ask yourself: would this please Her? Is this what She would want? Would I want you to eat the double cheeseburger, or would I want you to take care of my submissive and eat the heart healthy option? Would I prefer that you wear the ugly man briefs or the cute girly pink panties? Aim your every action towards bringing me pleasure and happiness and you’ll be a whole lot happier in your submission to me. Submit to me, and worship. Submit with a worshipful heart, and be mine.
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Dearest Harper,
Such an appropriate post for the impending Valentine’s Day,”be mine”.Oh yes Harper,you dressed in red,with red lipstick and the sweet inviting smile that’s armed with a sexual PhD…..submission is so easy!
Valentine’s Day is all about love, twu luv… or at least a whole lotta lust! You know I have my signature red lipstick all ready to go… lol