Give me control over your cock
There are a lot of benefits to guided masturbation, and one of the most immediately obvious is that it will improve your sex life.
Oh, you don’t think it’s that obvious at first glance? Well, hold onto your cocks, I’m going to explain exactly how guided masturbation with any of the Ladies of LDW will make your sex life ten thousand times better. Of course, we’re going to start with the base assumption that your sex life as it stands now could use some work. Never fear, this is a ‘no shame’ zone: there’s nothing to be ashamed of if your sex partners aren’t raving about your performance, that’s what I’m here for! To guide you to the right path for your cock.
Guided masturbation isn’t only about making you cum so had you see stars.
Yes, that’s one of the benefits of a nice guided masturbation session, but the real long term benefit to you is that your sex life in general will get better. Guided masturbation, especially guided masturbation that features plenty of cock control, edging and teasing, vastly improves your ability to hold off orgasm. As you know, I have opinions about unselfish lovers, and one of my strongly held opinions is that if you cum too fast you suck in bed. Learning to reach the edge of orgasm and stay there without loosing your erection or cumming is absolutely vital if you want a good sex life!
Let me say that again:
Guided edging masturbation and the control it helps you gain is vital to a good sex life.
If you want your partner to be panting and begging you to let her get a breath and rest; if you want the most mind-blowing orgasms of your life; if you want all the women in the PTA to look at you and blush… you need to experience guided masturbation and edging phone sex.
Luckily, you’re in the right place!
Great blog post Ms Harper! I agree with you about guided masturbation making someone a better lover. It’s not just about being able to wait to have an orgasm (although that is very important) — for me, it’s about creativity. The men that only jackoff one way get into a sex rut. If they’re in a boring sexual routine with masturbation, chances are they’ll also be boring and routine lovers. That’s ….. ahem …. less than optimal in a sexual partner!
That’s an excellent point! Boring jack off guys are boring in the sack with a partner too. Plus, it’s possible to get so used to only cumming one way that different methods don’t work as well; so if you’re used to the way your hand feels, when you get with a partner, there may be some embarrassing performance issues at hand!
Hey, you know . . . I never thought about that! Miss Harper’s point in her blog is well-taken: Increased stamina in terms of holding off orgasm does make sure that your lady gets all the dicking she wants before a guy blows his load, but not until I read your comment, Miss Olivia, did I think of the fact that increased stamina also allows him to experiment with pace, angles, changing up the grip, and all the things that transfer well to getting creative when using his cock as a tool to please his woman! After all, it’s not just (or shouldn’t just) be plain ol’ in-out all the time in either case!
Oh, fuck yes, that plain Jane in-n-out is so damn boring! The times I’ve had a guy get kicked out of my bed for being boring in bed… as I get older, I get less and less tolerant of that lazy bullshit! Nope! You either bring you A-game or GTFO.
Hahaha I hear you, Miss Harper. Sometimes with the dreaded “minute men”, they *have* to keep it to one thing, or they’ll blow! Hell no. Work on that stamina, boys! Fast, slow, hard, soft, and for *sure*, give me some of that bottom-out-and-grind! OMG . . . Adam needs to get here *NOW*. lol
Take note guys! Just *thinking* about how much improved your skills at sex will be is enough to get those of us ‘in the know’ going. A skilled lover, more than a one note lay, with stamina?! Hell yes!
I agree with you Ms. Oliva. No one likes a boring lover. You know the saying is that bored people are pretty boring themselves. Imagination and creativity in the bedroom is sort of like using herbs and spices in cooking a meal. Without it, it’s just boring meat…. Excellent post Ms. Harper, thank you!! XOXOXOX
“just boring meat”!!! ha! True.