I’ve said before that I want to own your cock.
I meant exactly that. Your cock, so hard and aching, quivering with desire… I want to control that. I want to be the one who creates that feeling, who orchestrates it and directs it and ultimately gets to decide the outcome and fate of that cock. I want to control your cock, and your reactions, so badly that sometimes I get a little breathless. I deeply, sincerely, honestly, love controling your cock.
The thing is, I sometimes have guys who want more.
I get that, I really do. I understand the drive of the submissive male to find a strong woman to dominate him. You so deeply want to be owned and controlled, to give up the right to make decisions and to have an opinion, to have a safe space in which you simply don’t have to think. You want someone you can be vulnerable and small with. Someone you don’t have to always have an answer for, someplace to rest and let go of worldly concerns.
I have to tell you, as a phone sex Mistress, I find the guys who come to me with this need incredibly sexy.
You trust me enough to bring your deepest, darkest, most closely held desires. You trust that I can help you fulfill your dreams, meet your needs and leave you sated. And that? That’s a huge rush. Thank you all so much for that, because it’s exactly what I need, too. I need to be trusted, to have you come to me with your needs and lay them out in front of me, I need you to need me.
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“You so deeply want to be owned and controlled, to give up the right to make decisions and to have an opinion…”
This comes so close to capturing my dreams, Ms. Harper. one thing i cannot change about myself is the habit of “having an opinion.” What i would adore is a Woman who will allow me to respectfully express my opinion, perhaps even solicit it. Then, She will either dismiss it out of hand with a laugh, or take it…twist it, turn it, tamper with it until it pleases Her. Perhaps the final form will be recognizable. Perhaps, i’ve provided some nugget worth retaining. Ultimately, it would become a matter of expressing opinions that instinctively conform to Her wishes.
as for decisions….they’re nothing but trouble in my own hands…lol
I love taking the things my subjects say to me and twisting them around! So much fun, to shock them with exactly what they asked for, in a form and shape they never thought of… it’s what they wanted, after all… they asked for it. Expressed a desire and I’m just meeting it…
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“exactly what they asked for, in a form and shape they never thought of…”
& right there You sound like Elizabeth Hurley in “Bedazzled” only more beautiful! 😉
oh, I love that movie! and she was so hot in it!
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She was the “stuff of dreams” in that movie. there are times, i wished She’d been a bit more, ummmm, pro-active in Her subversions, but in the end it was probably enough to watch him wreck himself on the shoals of the unattainable time and again.
It’s the old story of the genie in the bottle: be very careful what you wish for.
And, in some ways that sort of story irks me a bit… I mean, the idea that getting exactly what you want is impossible, that there are no shortcuts to getting what you really want, that what you want to have isn’t the same as what you need, that happiness only comes to you after you’ve suffered ‘enough’. Sigh. So Puritanical! But, it’s a part of our common story landscape now, so what are you gonna do?
…for me, I know that sometimes suffering is required before happiness, but then, I do love to tease and deny my poor playmates before letting them be, ah, ‘happy’. 😀
Impossible to get Ms. Harper’s beautiful commands? Wanting to hear your perfect voice giving them to me?
are You implying, Ms. Harper, that You are merely an extension of the Puritan Ethic? After all that i’ve read, it appears that as in society, suffering for what one wants is no guarantee that one will obtain what one wants, only a guarantee that one will suffer, lol
Oh, I’m no Puritan… maybe a bit Edwardian or Jacobean… 😉
I sometimes think that if it’s worth having it’s worth suffering for, but then again, I also think that suffering can be overrated. Suffering for the sake of suffering, to wash away some imagined ‘sin’… yeah, so not down with that. But suffering because the wash of pain brings endorphins in it’s wake, makes the sweetness afterwards seem much sweeter, that I’m down with. 😀
You’ve just hit (so to speak) on one of my favorite words, Ms. Harper….endorphins. & i do agree, suffering for the sake of suffering is waaaaay overrated. otoh, suffering for *somebody*…for their delight and experiencing that biochemical flood tide….that is a zebra of a different stripe!
love this blog…sums up owning quite nicely!
🙂 Thanks Luke. Glad you like it.