I do love tease and denial. I love bringing a helpless hapless male right to the edge of orgasm, over and over and over again, until he’s begging and pleading for release. I love the power of it, the sheer sexy fun of it, and most of all? I love getting to say “No.”
When a submissive male calls me and tells me that he’s been denying himself for several days in preparation for our phone sex session, I smile. When he says that he likes to be on edge for me, for his Mistress, I get positively giddy! I love edge play, I love hearing how ragged his breath becomes, how he gasps and those little moans he didn’t mean to make…
I love knowing I’ve driven him to this.
I’ve gotten so thoroughly inside your head, under your skin and in taken control of your cock to such an extent that you are helpless in front of me. And if you’re naked, trembling and begging? So much better!
I am a total tease. I’ll lead you on a merry chase, over and around and through your own sexuality, until you’re so dizzy you can’t barely stand it! I’ll wind your wee mind around my pinky finger and manipulate you into doing things you wouldn’t believe.
You’re mine now, totally and utterly, and you wouldn’t have it any other way. I posess you, from the bones out to the skin, and you asked me for it! You came to me, begging to be owned. How could I turn you down? I’ll own you happily, but deny you one thing… any form of release.
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I had never given a whole lot of thought to tease and denial before. I mean, sure… everybody loves a good tease now and again, but release is so… exquisite that the denial part always seemed like something to avoid at all costs 🙂
However, the more I hear about I must admit to being intrigued… The fact that you enjoy it so much makes it seem like a good idea, plus there is that thrill of anticipation.
I’ve always been a sucker for instant gratification though, but it might be fun to explore.
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While instant gratification can be fun, and once in a while, it’s gratifying, delayed gratification is just something to be treasured.
Have you ever planned something? Something that you really, really want… planned it all out, set a date for it, and then had to wait. Patiently. Thinking about it the whole time, thinking about how much you want it, how much you need it, how very much you’re going to enjoy having it. Really imagining it, fantasizing about it…
And then, when you finally have it, it’s not as good as your imagined reality. It just… doesn’t match up…
That’s one part of tease and denial. The anticipation, the wanting, the hanging in endless coils of lust and desire, is better by far than the brief, over too soon (and slightly sticky at the end) orgasm.
You should totally contact me for a little tease and denial session, NB. 😉 I guarantee you’ll love it.
I absolutely adore teasing and denial. When coordinated by a true expert (such as you Mistress) the results can lead to extremely pleasurable ends. Ms.Harper does a fantastic job of touching on the finer points of this dance. I totally plan to dive deeper into this in a future session with her. (If she will have me.)
I will happily ‘have’ you, wannabe, if you’re “up” for it.
lol!
Hello Ms Harper,
I am nodding right along with the majority of this article. I also like to edge (sometimes for weeks) before a session. I just love the feeling of anticipation (Carly Simon, where are ya?) leading up to the excitement. I haven’t been able to fully hand over control the “verdict” (and am rather conflicted if I would want to, novice that I am) into the talented hands of the expert Mistress, but I have done some “bargaining”…
I do love the bargaining…
and the begging!
yes goddess, this is truly one amazing fantasy.i have been thinking about u for so long. the way u express urself is amazing and also the way u make a release is even better. when i cum it feels awesome. u cannot actually describe it. the moment ur cock is on the verge of eruption, u r just holding on for life and just that extra stroke is like ur life line to heaven. goddess hope u will take me there along with u.
Andy, I just have to point out that the icon the computer assigned to you is priceless. I love the placement of the little gray cocktube thingy. lol!
Whether or not you get to cum depends solely upon my whim in the moment, and upon whether or not you’re good at begging.
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goddess pls i beg u. i am at ur feet….. pls i m begging u…
pls i have handed over my dick to u.
But, Andy, I need your balls, too.
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love the thought of tease and denial – think both go hand in hand and cannot have one without the other. would love to be drawn in to the point where I”m begging to be owned.
The begging is one of my favorite parts. Especially once you start begging to be owned, utterly…
mmm.
mmm indeed. let the begging and owning begin!!!