Happy New Year!
I’ve never offered a full program before now, but I thought I’d start 2014 off with a bang! That’s right. I’m putting together a program chock full of cock control, edging games, a smidge of humiliation, and just a touch of cum eating. You see, I’ve decided that if I’m really going to take control of cocks, I should go all the way, right?
The next two months, be on the lookout for exciting instructions.
We’re going to explore this idea together, and I’m hoping for feedback from those of you who participate, to help me streamline and work out the kinks. What I’d like to know first from everyone is, well, just what do you want to see in a stroking and cock control program?
Tell me what you’re most interested in.
The best and biggest ‘bang’ comes when I work with you to create something extra special for us to share. And that sharing is only possible if you share your opinions and feedback with me. I really do want to know! If your Mistress told you she was making a program designed to bring you under her total and complete control, what would make your heart beat faster, get your cock hard in record time and drive you to absolute distraction?
I know what I want to put into the program.
Now I want to know what you hope to get out of it. Go wild. Weirdest dreams here, highest flights of fantasy, just go nuts. Do you want panties, lipstick, mascara? How about CBT or light cock binding? A little roleplay, some humiliation, name calling, chastity training, prostate milking, bare handed spanking or foot worship?
You tell me, and I may include it in the 2014 Cock Control Program.
Because I want to make you wild for me, I want to control your cock, and I want to hear you moan.
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Miss Harper, I like that you want to make it personal, on a deeper, kinkier, more perverted level. So a few suggestions. First, how about creating challenging homework assignments to make me prove I’m into the training and take it seriously. Consider things like reading assignments. Maybe there’s a favorite piece of erotic fiction you already read and want me to read. Give a short but reasonable deadline. Maybe a few days to order it from amazon another week to read it (maybe less if you really want to have me by the balls), followed by some Q&A with you over IM about the reading assignment and based on my pass-or-fail oral exam, you determine if I’ve earned a call with you. Fuck with my mind. Don’t make the challenge easy. Who says you have to even let me pass the first or second time, or even subsequent tests. If I fail, have me convince you that I’m worth another chance with another challenge if I’m showing an effort even if I’m stumbling along the way as you come up with more challenging assignments to show that you have no intention of making it easier on me… only harder. Maybe I agree that I’m willing to commit $30 to subscribe to a porn site for a month. The catch is that if I agree, you get to choose the site. Maybe I’m hoping for Hustler.com, Bangbros.com, NaughtyAmerica.com, etc. Maybe you’re thinking something more along the lines of a seriously hard core butt fucking gay porn site. Maybe dictate to me exactly what user name and password you want me to use when I sign up for the account. I’m sure your creative mind can come up with something very humiliating for me to have to type in each time I log in. If there’s concern about credit card abuse, we can agree that I’ll use a pre-paid credit card with just enough credit loaded to get a one month membership. Once the account is created, naturally it would need to be verified by you. Maybe we agree that every odd day, I will log in and watch the specific videos you identified as mandatory viewing. Maybe every even day, or every 3rd day or 5th day (whatever interval you want) you have the option of logging in and I will not log in on those days, to avoid locking the account due to too many computers and users. This gives you an opportunity to assign homework videos for me to watch. Later quizzing me on the videos. Questions like how did the video start out? What was the third sex act performed and which porn star did it to the other. Make it fucking tough on me. Make it so I have to pay close attention to the movies. Throughout all of the assignments, have me multi-tasking. Have me give up a certain food I like, or coffee, or alcohol, or put me on a strict diet. Maybe if you determine that I’m not performing well, I can get extra credit by showing a receipt that I purchased a condom, cucumber and a vat of crisco. Okay, that last one is taking it too far. I just want to get your creativity flowing because the last thing I would want with this kind of play is to top from the bottom. That would be as much of a turn off for me as I’m guessing it is for you. Surprise me how kinky and creative you can get within boundaries we can establish before entering an arrangement. Maybe, just maybe, I agree that I’d like to see a local real time Mistress on the day you finally allow me to call. Maybe you have me create a short list of 2 Mistress I would be willing to see. Maybe the final choice is left up to you and maybe our call takes place while the session is happening.
If we’re talking about an extra special cock control program, I think it really comes down to how creative two people’s minds can get. The sexual kinks mixed in with all of this that would make it special are: mind fucking, verbal humiliation, name calling, chastity training or abstinence, anal toys, prostate milking and cum eating. I look forward to hearing your thoughts.