While you’ve been busy thinking about all the ways you’d like to submit, I’ve been busy thinking about my favorite way to have your submission presented to me. Far too many cis het men think their submission should involve only those things they find most entertaining and pleasant to engage in, while leaving all the hard stuff out. I can understand, if you’re new to not being in charge, wanting your submission to be easy, and simple, and erotically pleasing to yourself. But eventually, your submission will deepen enough that you’ll be asked to do something that perhaps you’re not actually all that aroused by, personally. That’s why I like to turn every submissive into a sissy cocksucker.

Can your submission be complete without cocksucking?

Harper's Sissy Cocksucker 800 601 7259Sure, of course it can. For you, that is. Your submission can be fulfilling and enjoyable and “complete” from your limited point of view without you ever having to kneel down and suck cock for me. But I think that turning you into a sissy cocksucker would make your submission deeper, richer, and more all encompassing, especially if you’re not that in to being either feminized or sucking a dick. Can you make a guess as to why I think pushing you to do something you’re not that interested in is good for you?

The male ego is a huge and powerful force.

Face it, we live in a patriarchal society in which men are taught basically from their first breath that they are natural leaders. Men are seen as the default, while women are seen as weaker, smaller, more fragile, and in need of protection by men. These are lessons that men internalize with every step they take through our society. Look at our media, myths, stories we tell one another, and you’ll see it. Men are supposed to be ‘alpha’ males, powerful and strong, unemotional, stoic, and capable of withstanding hardship without complaining. That’s why I really love deconstructing your typical male down into a sissy. A sissy cocksucker, at that! The entire concept contravenes the idea of the modern male!

If you want to fully submit, you need to be prepared to face the total reconstruction of your ego.

Ok, that’s a little dramatic, but, honestly, that really is one of the knock-on effects of submission. As you submit, you’ll be put in positions that will challenge your ego, and your sense of self. As you confront those challenges, you will change in response. You can’t not change, because refusal to change in response to new information and new experiences means you’re basically inert. Human nature is to change as we live, grow, and evolve. So, your submission to me will be a challenge, and you will grow from it. A basic challenge to your sense of place in the world is to challenge all those masculine ideals you’ve spent your whole life trying to live up to. I hope you’re not so attached to being a manly man that you’re incapable of adapting…

Because I’m going to be putting you in panties and a cute dress, painting your lips Barbie Pink, and letting your emotions out of that iron clad box of toxic masculine control. Be prepared to weep, motherfucker.

For your own good, darling, I’m going to make you into a sissy cocksucker.

Think of this as finally facing your demons, battling them, and emerging with a healthier idea of your emotional boundaries and capabilities. You’re going to be able to cry at a sunset, put on lipliner without looking like a clown, and you’ll gain some oral skills, too. You’re going to be my sissy cocksucker, with the desire to please your Mistress alongside the understanding that it takes nothing away from your self to kneel, submit, and perform oral sex on one of my lovers. Fair warning! You’re going to grow as a person through your submission and transformation into a sissy cock sucking faggot.

I’m looking forward to talking with you, and helping your growth!

Your sissy cocksucking transformation Mistress, Harper

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