I feel like I’m on the cover of Rolling Stone! Or something like that, LOL!!!
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Speaking of winter blues, I’m stuck thinking of all the different things I love that are blue. Somehow the chill of winter makes me very perverse…
What do I love that’s blue? That should be obvious, silly! Blue Balls!
I love knowing that you are in desperate need of a good spine tingling orgasm; and I really love knowing that you don’t get to have one! Because I said so. I love knowing that you’ll drive yourself to the edge, over and over and over again for me, and yet not go over. I know you want, desperately, achingly, to cum…
and I get to Deny, Deny, Deny! lol
Orgasm denial. I had no idea, a couple years ago, what that meant. I was happily going along in my life thinking that all sex ended in orgasms (mutual, of course), when a friend pointed out to me that, no, not so much.
She sat me down and explained to me that men won’t actually die if they don’t get to cum. That they get more submissive, more pliant and open and controlled if they DON’T get to cum! I was amazed. And intrigued. And fascinated. And other adjectives that all add up to ‘tell me more!’
Anything that makes a male more easily controlled, I’m up for. And if it makes them even more submissive to me, well, that’s just right up my alley! Orgasm denial, tease and denial, denial denial, denial. mmm!
So, fair warning, gentlemen. If you call me and say it’s up to me whether or not you get to cum, I hate (no, let’s be honest here, I LOVE) to say that you won’t get to cum! If it were up to me you’d be in long term chastity and begging endlessly for permission to release your joy juice.
On your knees, pleading… only to hear me tell you NO.
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Great post, Ms Harper–love the audios that play in window, BTW.
I am now going to attempt to marry the themes of your blogpost to a quotation from a film very timely for this very day…
“When Chekhov saw the long winter, he saw a winter bleak and dark and bereft of hope (when I am in a ‘tease in denial’ session, I know the feeling, Mr. Chekhov). Yet we know that winter is just another step in the cycle of life (long bouts of agony mercifully punctured by all too brief bursts of esctacy). But standing here among the people of Punxsutawney and basking in the warmth of their hearths and hearts (the dexterous ministrations and good intentions of the lovely Mistresses here at LDW), I couldn’t imagine a better fate than a long and lustrous winter (your will and judiciousness shall lead the way).”
From Punxsutawney, this is castaway–so long…
is that from Groundhog Day? with Bill Murray?
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Ms Harper,
Thank you SO much for taking the time to sit with me and share a long chat about orgasm denial. I too was once misguided in my thinking that there is only one true road to male pleasure. As it turns out, males seem to be much happier when they are given purpose through service to a goddess-like earth dweller. I have never been more fulfilled. Looking forward to your next post!
🙂 it was lots of fun Ms Alexis! you’re ten kinds of sexy, too. xoxo!