I’ve told you a fair bit this month about advanced anal training, and even some extreme anal fantasies. But I don’t want to scare you off entirely! While, yes, if you want to take something exorbitantly large up your bum you’ll need to work up to it over time and embrace the reality of a lasting lifestyle change, a finger or two is really no big deal. I want to encourage everyone to embrace their entire erogenous zone between their legs. Just like sex isn’t only penis in vagina your genitals don’t end at the reproductive bits. If it feels really good, do it. Play with your ass. So let’s get into a little anal exploration for beginners.
Wash Your Ass
So, you’re probably thinking to yourself that you don’t want to play with your ass because you know what comes out of it, right? Well fellas, if you have a penis, guess what comes out of it every day, too! Stop being so squeamish and get over yourself. You have enough bodily awareness to know when you need to make a trip to the private space set aside for such things, right? You know when you need to go to the bathroom and take care of matters; obviously right before you go potty would be a less than optimal time to play with your butt. But, after you relieve yourself? Especially if you wash your ass, or use a wet wipe to take care of any clingers? Perfect time for exploring your sphincter and asshole with some anal tease fun.
Embrace The Sex Towel
I tend to get very wet when I’m turned on. Therefore, I have a sex towel. Put the towel down, and maybe explore the world of high-end waterproof mattress protectors too, and get wet and messy without needing to change the sheets before bed. If you’re worried you anal exploration game is going to stain things, hit your local thrift store and save some towels from the landfill, or get a blanket if you yearn for a greater canvas to play on. In the same vein, a little preparation ahead of time can make you so much more comfortable when exploring your ass. Invest in some gloves, good lube, and some wet wipes. Keep your expired condoms handy, too, to make cleaning up your toys easier!
Slow The Fuck Down
Anal Exploration is not a sprint. It’s more of a marathon, really. You cannot go from ‘oh no I’m intimidated by my own desires’ to ‘sure shove this enormous thing up my bum right now’ in a day. Start with a finger or two, and maybe invest in a nice prostate toy for yourself. If you’re in a body with male anatomy including a prostate, you will want a prostate toy. I always recommend the Aneros line of prostate massagers, because they’re really good at what they do. And what they do is they make you into a messy anal slut very quickly. Plus, they have smaller sizes for anal virgins. Take a deep breath, slow your roll, and finger that ass for me. Save the enormous dildo for later.
Ready For Some Anal Exploration?
When you’re ready to explore your booty, remember that having an experienced guide can turn your fumbling exploration into a confident expedition to anal orgasm land. Nothing beats a little sexy anal fingering with a femdom to tell you how to delve. You will love laying back and letting me tell you how to play with your ass for me, and when I tell you to tease your cock at the same time? Edge yourself while you stick another finger in your ass, and, eventually, if you’re a good submissive for me, I might even let you orgasm. Interested? I’m open to helping you start an entire lifetime of anal play, today.
Your Anal Exploration Mistress, Harper
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