For my second offering in the Enchantrix Empire Femdom Dungeon Halloween Blog Train (phew, that’s a mouthful), I’m bringing you a special rite that I created. As you know, I’m Buddhist and Pagan, and this rite pulls heavily on my personal spiritual beliefs and practices. While you’ve enjoyed the sexy fun and did your best to escape Ms Riley’s Pleasure Dungeon, this is your chance to embrace the power of transformation and rebirth, and become the truest version of yourself. If you missed the start of the Blog Train, go back to the beginning with Ms Constance and read all the offerings. Don’t forget to listen to the audios on each post for the Dungeon Keys: you’ll need those at the end of the Train to claim your free phone sex minutes. And now, on to the Ritual Transformation for the Full Moon!

Ritual Cleansing

Mistress Harper Ritual Transformation CleansingAll spiritual rites and rituals start well before you step foot in the Circle. After all, before you head to Church you shower and put on your Sunday Best, don’t you? Why would this pagan rite of Ritual Transformation be any different? A simple shower isn’t quite enough, though, you’ll need to be ritually cleansed and purified before the transformation takes hold. There’s a couple of reasons for this. First, you don’t want to carry with you into your new life the energy of the things that have been clinging to you and holding you back. You also need to strip down to a clean slate, pure and clarified, so that new aspects to yourself can be brought forward. You can’t add more seasoning to an already seasoned and roasted haunch, nor can you top off the stew pot if it’s already overflowing. So start by stripping down and getting clean!

Salt, Hot Water, and a Razor

You can create a ritual scrub using olive oil, salt, and, if you have it, some essential oil. In a small bowl, pour between a quarter cup and a half cup of olive oil, and top with a cup of sea salt. Mix that thoroughly, then add 15 to 30 drops of your essential oil. I love citrus oils for brightening energy, along with any of the mints or eucalyptus. Using your hands, in the shower, scrub yourself down with your ritual scrub, focusing your mind on thoughts of purity, revitalization, and renewal. With your imagination, see the old you, the day to day skin of Self that you have to wear, being scrubbed away and washed down the drain. Take up your razor, and shave every bit of hair from your eyebrows down right off your now supple and soft body. Rinse, wrap yourself in a soft towel, and enjoy the new softness of your skin.

The Robes of a Witch

Mistress Harper Ritual Transformation RobesSome rituals call for decadence and drama, and that goes for the robes and attire worn by participants. This ritual is all about leaving the old behind and embracing the new, so your every day clothes are simply not acceptable. New, never worn before (or at least freshly laundered and very clean) is the way to go. Select your choices carefully, as carefully as you would select what you wear on the first day of a new job, in a new school, or on a first date. The person you’re trying to dress to impress is yourself. The deepest version of who you truly are should be brought forward by the clothes you choose. If you’d like to bring more feminine aspects to your life, panties, a comfortable bra, cute lingerie, or a fun and flirty dress, are all perfect choices! Avoid anything with holes, signs of wear, or that are strongly associated with your past self.

Ritual Is Drama

Mistress Harper Ritual Transformation AltarYour ritual space should be large enough for you to stand and turn a few steps in all directions. A circular space roughly five to six feet in diameter is ideal. You’ll want a table, or a flat stable surface to put your ritual items on, up off the floor a bit. Speaking of your ritual items, you will need a saucer of salt, a cup of water, a candle (and a lighter), and either some incense or a feather. You’ll also need a mirror. Turn off as many electric devices in your space as you can, including lights, fans, and electric clocks. Set the scene for the rite with a little prep ahead of time, and make sure that the floor is clean, there are no funky smells, and you have all your implements ready.

The Full Moon Transformation Ritual Begins

You’ve prepared yourself, your space, and your tools, and the time for the ritual is here! On the night of the Full Moon, you will invoke the inner and outer powers to bring yourself a renewal and rebirth into the person you most deeply long to become. Step into your ritual space, take a deep breath to center yourself, and begin. From the North, and proceeding clockwise, at each cardinal point pause and speak the following in a strong, proud, certain voice:

North: (holding the saucer of salt in both hands)

With poise and confidence in my Self, I welcome the Spirits and Powers of the North, Earth, and the burgeoning midnight. Bear witness here!

East: (holding either your feather or the lit incense)

With strength of mind and clarity of thought, I welcome the Spirits and Powers of the East, Air, and the dawn of a new day. Bear witness here!

South: (holding the lit candle)

With passion and inner will, I welcome the Spirits and Powers of the South, Fire, and the power of the mid-day Sun. Bear witness here!

West: (holding the cup of water)

With calm and certainty in my feelings, I welcome the Spirits and Powers of the West, Water, and the setting of the Sun. Bear witness here!

Mistress Harper Ritual Transformation InvocationAs you greet and invoke the Cardinal points, envision that a wall of pure power rises around you along the circumference of your ritual space. The Ritual Space is set apart from normal waking reality through an act of will, guided by intuition, and put into creation through your actions.

Ritual Transformation Starts Inside

You may stand or kneel within your ritual circle, whichever is easiest for you. Take up the mirror in both hands, and gaze at your own reflection. Take the time to examine yourself as you are now. You may feel moved to set the mirror aside, to avoid your own gaze, or to reject the image of who you are in the mirror. The Full Moon Transformation Ritual will evoke emotions and feelings in you that can range from disgust to acceptance; you need to breathe through the feelings, accept them, and allow them to flow through you. Once you have examined yourself as you are now, set the mirror down, face down, and breathe deeply. In through your nose, and out through your mouth, full and deep breaths for at least 30 seconds and longer if possible. Raise your head, straighten your back, and pull your shoulders back as you declaim in a strong and confident voice:

“I am as I am, and have been made to be. But who I am, and what I am, is not ALL I can become. With deep strength, insight, passion, and feeling I reach beyond my current Self to embrace the Self that awaits me.”

Visualize who you will become. See that Self, the changes that would happen to you to bring that person forward into your life. Feel the emotions of that other self, the passions that motivate them, the thoughts that would occupy their daily life, and the embodied lived reality of being that person.

Complete The Ritual

Mistress Harper Ritual Transformation CompletionHolding onto the image in your mind of the You Who Will Become, feel the tension and energy of your transformation fill you, starting from your gut behind your belly button, and rising to fill your body, eventually spilling from your skin as if you were a light illuminating the darkness. Strongly, with confident voice, say the following:

“I am, and I will become. The vision of who I will be is my future, and I embrace that Self with open arms and accepting heart. Let the desire and passion, the insight and emotion, and the bone deep truth of my being guide and usher this new beginning into being!”

Tense every muscle in your body and hold the tension as long as you can. Release the tension and visualize that the new Self, the new You, is made manifest through your body. The rebirth has begun, the transformation has taken root in your being. Take up the mirror again, and gaze into your own eyes until you See your true Self.

You Didn’t Think It Was One And Done, Did You?

This Ritual Transformation Rite can be repeated as often as you’d like, but I recommend revisiting the entire process on the Full and New Moons. As a reaffirmation of who you are, and who you would like to become, this rite will help you accept and embrace yourself. At the end of your rite, stand or face North, and thank the cardinal directions that have come forth to help you become the truest version of yourself. You can simply say “thank you for witnessing, now be free to stay or go as you wish.” Clean up your ritual tools, put your space back to rights, and go have a snack!

Aftereffects

You will likely feel motivated to embrace more of your truest self in the days and weeks after the ritual. This is normal! For best effect, allow your intuition and desires to guide you, and embrace the new Self that is being manifested through you. No matter what form your new You takes, you won’t actually make forward movement towards it if you don’t act on your vision. The changes don’t have to be big or life shattering. You can make incremental changes towards the version of your life that will fill you with the most joy and pleasure. But you must make actual real world effort and changes to bring the new Self into your life, otherwise all the drama and ritual is just fucking around and playing make-believe. Ritual works best when combined with outward work.

Ready to Transform Your Life?

Tantric Life Coach Harper 800 601 7259When you’re ready to actually change your life, give me a call or drop me an email. I’m still a Kinky Life Coach, and that means I can help coach you through the changes you need to implement to make your idealized Self into a reality. Who do you want to be? You’ll notice that other than directing you to shave, and mentioning femme dressing, the Ritual Transformation doesn’t actually specify what your new You should look like. That’s up to you! Who do you wish you could be? If that’s a transformation or transition for your gender expression, a new job for yourself, a relationship that fulfills you, or some other desired change in your life, the ritual will help you solidify and start the path of transformation. I can then help you take that path even further!

The Halloween Blog Train Continues

Keep going with the Halloween Blog train, because next up is Ms Laurel’s Pleasure Dungeon! Don’t forget to listen to the audio, because there’s a Dungeon Key for you to collect. Remember that you can collect all the keys and at the end of the month you get a prize in the form of free phone sex minutes. You’ll also be given the chance to vote for your top Blog Train posts!

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