One of the hardest things for a Sissy is the transition from fantasy to reality. A lot of sissification fantasies honestly don’t translate well to the real world, for many reasons. But that said, there’s an awful lot of feminization that can be enjoyed in the real world, if you’re brave and inventive enough. From wearing cute panties under your masculine clothes to enjoying sissy themed events, you can actually have a lot of fun with your feminine desires! You can always count on the Ladies of LDW to keep our sissies in mind, and to help you with all your desires and needs.
So what’s stopping your sissification fantasies from becoming reality?
For too many sissies, the main thing preventing them from bringing their crossdressing or feminization dreams out of the bedroom is fear. Fear of being rejected, ridiculed, or otherwise ruined stops too many people from reaching for the things in life that would make them truly happy. In addition to fear (reasonable or otherwise), some sissification fantasies are just not feasible. In the real world, you cannot drink a potion and wake up tomorrow with giant tits and a wet sloppy pussy. We wish, right? But no, sadly, magic isn’t that fast. You can’t actually sign over your rights to a demanding Mistress and allow her to reshape your body into a bimbo slut. And you really can’t just completely transform your entire life without a few real world steps; time and space still exist, and things do take a little time to bring to fruition.
What sorts of feminization can you do in real life?
Real life feminization and sissification is very fun and completely possible. The obvious, of course, is just changing what sort of underwear you have under your clothes. I solemnly promise you that no one can tell just by looking if you’re wearing a bra or not. Unless you have man-boobs and opt for something with an underwire and padded cups, your cute lacy bra is practically invisible from the outside of your clothes. If you’re truly freaked out and worried, add an undershirt like a tank top. An extra layer of fabric can disguise any seams or funny lumps. When you’re looking for a cute bra, aim for a bralette; bralettes don’t have underwire or padding, or if there is padding it’s removable. They’re lighter, provide less structure and the cups are less defined, but they’re perfect for sissies who want to look pretty. A straight swap would be changing out your hideous masculine underwear for something much more feminine. You might want to avoid standing when you go to a public restroom, but there should be a stall with a door. That way no one can ever catch so much as a glimpse of your sexy panties under your masculine costume.
The internet was made for porn, and for sissies to play and have fun!
We tend to both encourage and enable sissies running amuck and having too much fun! In fact, there’s a couple hot new products available for Sissies in the Assignment Store, and you should give them a look. The first is from me: Sissy Consultations with Mistress Harper. I’m offering email consultations for sissies, focused on giving you solid advice and guidance on your sissy journey. You get a series of emails back and forth with me (so you have a record to keep on hand!) in which whatever issue or problem you’re having gets the once over from your truly. Combine my Life Coach expertise with my Sissification knowledge and you’re going to be catapulted past whatever is blocking you!
In August you have the chance to join your fellow Sissies and four of the Sissification Mistresses for a fun Sissy Bingo Night! Come play bingo with us and win fabulous prizes, ranging from free texting with Mistress Erika to 30 minutes in Heaven with Mistress Riley, and even a Sissy Consultation with me. Save the date: August 25th is the big night. It’s just $25 per card (two card limit), and you can win prizes, get all dressed up for us, and enjoy a chance to be your truest sissy self. Bring that sissification fantasy just a little closer to reality this summer, and come play with us.
Ready to bring those sissification fantasies out of the closet?
It’s perfectly fine if you’re not ready to bring your sissy self out of the bedroom and into the real world. You’ll move at your own pace, after all. But I do hope you’ll give some thought to adding a little sissy flair to your everyday, either through some stealth feminization techniques or by joining in on some sissy social time with us! Embrace your truest self, sissy darlings, and let a little of your true heart show.
Your Sissification Fantasy Mistress, Harper
PS: don’t forget that you can still get 20% off all Audio Store and Assignment Store offerings with coupon code SIZZLINGSUMMER when you check out!
Thanks for this great post Ms Harper love all the sissy advice always comes in handy !! xoxos
I’m glad you enjoyed it! I always want my posts to contain something positive and useful, and encouraging. đ
Also love the pic of you in the pretty red dress so beautiful !!
Red is my color!
Hi Mistress Harper!â¤ď¸ Up front?
I still havenât bought those womenâs jeans you suggested for a bit more âovertâ play.
Such an interesting topic for me because, I have in fact, made some sissy fantasies realities.
Throwing caution to the windâŚ(perhaps a mid life crisis?)
Since I couldnât afford a âbigâ truck!?) I went out to Wal Mart with Mistress and her friend fully en femme! (And even drove in my four inch âŚcareful now, black patent leather pumps!). True.
What an experienceâŚ
Now my daily routine will consist of (after locking up Mistress Erikaâs property and brewing the coffee) going on the computer to do the daily home finance checks and block those penis enlargement junk mailsâŚ(they know!??)
Afterwards itâs off to view those wonderful websites that allow me to live vicariously through the brave sissies who graciously present themselves in ways I fantasize about.
Or are they fantasies?
Perhaps Iâve blurred those lines more than I let on?
Thanks Mistress HarperâŚwhat an enjoyable blog?
If you went to wallyworld, you were in the very place that’s perfect to grab those women’s jeans! Make sure to get a pair with the really pretty pattern on the back pockets.
I’m glad you’re enjoying living your sissy life. And maybe one day you’ll be one of those fabulous sissies out there living your life in public, proud and unashamed!