For some married couples, or even just cohabitating couples, the idea of a little extra-curricular activity can be extremely titillating. When your evening routine starts to resemble an episode of an 80’s sitcom, complete with laugh track, it can be really tempting to bring in a little something extra to spice things up again! Some couples turn to some light BDSM, with feathers and some rope, and maybe even a cute little riding crop. Others turn to cuckold fantasies to wake up their sex lives!
Cuckold Fantasies can really bring your sex life back to life
It may feel counterintuitive to add a third or fourth sex partner in an attempt to make your primary sexual relationship more interesting, but for many this is a tried-and-true avenue for enriching their sexual experiences. While adding a second relationship is, in polyamorous circles, considered not a very good idea, adding some sexual spice by either fantasizing about or actually going out and finding a willing sexual partner for a night can be a very good idea! Consider how the use of sexual fantasies in your bedroom can stimulate the most important sexual organ you or your partner have: your brains. All sex starts in the mind, and using your mind to create robust fantasies and then sharing those fantasies with your lover can lead to amazingly mind-blowing sex.
A cuckold fantasy is not the same as opening a relationship to other partners.
An open relationship is one in which both partners are free to seek out other sexual and romantic partners. I’m in a polyamorous style set of relationships! In these relationships, both sexual partnerships and romantic partnerships are welcomed and participated in by all members of the relationship matrix. I’m not saying that my standing Thursday night fuck buddy has to be in a relationship with my asexual trans partner, but at least they know of each other and are fine with the fact that I am in a relationship with each of them. These relationships differ from a cuckold relationship because there is an element of a romantic type of relationship with each of them. A cuckold relationship is simply sex, with no romantic attachment; a cuckold relationship also involves more than just the two people fucking!
In a cuckold relationship, there is the primary couple, usually a man and a woman, and an outside sexual partner, also usually male, and usually having sex with the woman. The only romantic partnership is between the primary couple, while the outside sexual partner generally is only there for the sex.
Some cuckold relationships do evolve into romantic relationships, because people do tend to get attached to the people they’re fucking!
The tendency of people to become romantically inclined towards their sexual partners is why cuckold fantasies are perfect! If one partner is worried that the introduction of an outside sexual partner can create friction or distance between themselves and their romantic lover, it’s probably best to hold off on actually introducing that outside partner. Instead, keep your spicy bedroom fun to the realm of fantasy! Think about seeing your love pick up a man at a bar and bring him home. Imagine how she’d kiss him, and be held, how his hand might cup her head as she kneels in front of him and begins to suck his cock. If the reality of that image would bring you to tears, keep it to the world of fantasy, and let the images and ideas push you closer to the sexual brink.
Cuckold fantasies come in a lot of different forms
Some partners dream of anonymous stranger fucking, while others add an element of humiliation to the mix. Watching your wife being fucked so good and so deeply by a real man, while you cower in the corner and can do nothing other than watch and jerk yourself off helplessly? Hot fantasy! Maybe what would turn you on best is a mix of cuckold fantasy plus some sissification and coerced bisexuality! Does the thought of being made to wear pretty panties to go suck your girlfriend’s lover until he’s hard enough to fuck her just the way she wants turn you on and make you moan like a bitch? Time to go borrow some panties and indulge your dirty fantasies! Even better if you share that fantasy with her, so she can enjoy it too!
Cuckold fantasies add a lot of spice in the bedroom!
Indulge yourself with some good healthy dirty thoughts and nasty fantasies, because life is short, and you need to be fulfilled. So does your partner! Women deserve good sex, too, and have just as many filthy fantasies as you do. Share your fantasies with your partner, and see what comes from them. (Probably you, and your partner, at least once and more likely repeatedly!) Sharing is caring, so tell your partner you want to be cuckolded today.
Your Cuckold Fantasy Mistress, Harper
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