If you’ve never ruined your own orgasm for the joy and benefit of your Mistress, can you truly say that you’re submissive? I think there’s no better expression of your desire to obey and please a Mistress than ruining your orgasm for us, personally. I bet I can talk you into feeling the same way, but first, let’s explore a little bit about the ruined orgasm fetish (and then you can ruin your orgasm for Mistress Harper).
What’s a ruined orgasm?
Simply put, a ruined orgasm is any orgasm that isn’t quite as fully satisfying, pleasurable, or complete as it could be. What’s more, most people have experienced one! That’s right, you’ve had a ruined orgasm, even if you just shrugged a bit and went on about your day, or thought to yourself “well, that was a waste of five minutes.” Think of ruined orgasms as falling into two categories: purposeful and accidental.
Accidental ruined orgasms happen all the time!
And, yes, I do in fact think they’re funny, but this isn’t about my enjoyment per se, but about helping you understand what’s going on with your dick. Sexual dysfunction can include the inability to orgasm, or an incomplete or unsatisfying orgasm. If you try and try and try to have an orgasm, but nothing happens, your first step should be to make an appointment with a doctor to rule out any underlying health issues. Causes of anorgasmia can include stress, anxiety, prostate cancer, and heart health issues. You can see why, if you try to cum and can’t, you should talk to someone about that and get it figured out.
If stress is preventing your full release, try edging and chastity.
That’s right, I’m suggesting that you stop putting pressure on yourself to orgasm, especially if that pressure is itself stressing you out so much that you can’t cum. Just edge a few times, then put yourself in chastity. By taking an orgasm off the table entirely, you can relieve yourself of the stress associated with an inability to orgasm, and thus make your eventual release more likely to actually happen. Don’t think in terms of whether or not you have to orgasm now, but instead in terms of enjoying the present moment, without needing to cum at all, and letting that orgasm be a thing for tomorrow to worry over.
For those who wish to fully experience submission to a Mistress…
It’s really absolutely true that the best way for a submissive male to show his utter and complete adoration of and loyalty to his Mistress is through the sacrifice of his selfish pleasures. You must ruin your own orgasm in order to prove that you’re a good submissive, loyal and obedient. Plus, I really like it when you do this for me, especially on Skype so I can watch! There’s something really amusing to me about your little dick flopping around as you jizz all over yourself, untouched. Knowing that you’d do this for me, just to amuse me, gives me a rush, and then, knowing that you’ll be thinking of me afterward, endlessly frustrated and turned on, aching and horny for the rest of the day?
Think of me after you ruin your orgasm.
I want you to touch yourself, again and again, and to think of me when you do it. Whether you’re edging and destined to be locked in chastity again afterward, or if you’ve managed to get me to agree to let you release (and ruin it), you’ll think about me while you do it. As it should be.
Your ruined orgasm awaits, for Mistress Harper
i obediently performed on cam for Ms. Harper the other day and i think She was amused…! ?
I was! and I laughed at your poor dick flopping around for me. You made such a lovely puddle on your own thigh for me. 😉
Oooooooooooooh!
No, actually NO big O. You made me RUIN it for you yesterday. I am still thinking about you ✔️, damn, as you said I would, as you said I would after the first ruin ✔️, as I’ve done all these years after sessions IN FRONT OF YOU with your beautiful torment I go away thinking about you ✔️.
I am publicly (pubLICKly?) admitting out loud, right here and now “Mistress harper was the FIRST woman to ruin my orgasm, intentionally, and ?Oops she did it again, she played with her cum licker…? and I loved her for both! I have been her Desperate NEEDY Cum Licker since forever and a day and for some reason I feel like the lucky one here! I love being Your Play Toy Mistress Harper, My Queen of Torment!”
Thank you for so many years of teasing, taunting, torment, humiliation and degradation and really, just driving me insane for cum the way you do!
PLEASE! AGAIN MISTRESS HARPER!
You are so fun to tease, and to have you lick up your load for me… and now, you’ll ruin that orgasm for me too! I love knowing that you’ll be thinking of me afterward.
xoxo
Thios sentence is utter perfection, beginning to end: It’s really absolutely true that the best way for a submissive male to show his utter and complete adoration of and loyalty to his Mistress is through the sacrifice of his selfish pleasures! Great work, Harper!
I think my true thoughts about ruined orgasms really shine through! I’m so glad you agree with me… we should team up and make someone ruin themselves for our amusement!
i volunteer for You both to team up on me 😉
Ms Harper, I agree ruined orgasm is always on the “to do list” for an obedient submissive, and I adore how much your pets, (particularly D) is enslaved to your power with this delicious *Magical* way to dominate!
I know a lot of our submissives are afraid of a ruined orgasm, but if they just try it once, they’ll see how it enhances their experience! And amuses US.
Let’s team up and make someone cry today!
Would I survive both of you on one session, ruined or not? Mistress Erika really out me through the wringer not too long ago! She literally *inducted me*!
You are both so great so I don’t care if I survived it or not! ; )
I am definitely *enslaved* to you Bukkake Mistress Erika! I will never be able to deny that!
I have several ideas on the many ways a man can ruin his orgasm, that will make me smile. Definitely laugh. More than likely take complete satisfaction in. Dribbles in tragedy, the ruined agony, can I get an amen?
I have a deep love of a good ruined orgasm. Share your techniques with me, and I’ll share mine! Better still, let’s find a subby to torment between us, and really ruin his orgasm!!!