Do you ever get the urge to change your entire lifestyle, toss your old life in a flaming dumpster and just start all over again? If you’re dissatisfied with your current lifestyle, and want to experiment with a change, I have some advice for you! While some folks like to cut their hair in a new style and call it good, I’m a fan of doing something a little more disruptive, but that still won’t require you to sell your house and move to the mountains to become a hermit. I’m talking about asking yourself if the male chastity lifestyle is for you.

So ask yourself: Is the male chastity lifestyle for you?

What is the male chastity lifestyle, anyway? Simply put, the chastity lifestyle is one in which nothing changes for you, other than your rate of sexual intimate contact and orgasm. You keep the same job, the same house, the same clothes (well, we can negotiate, because I am a fan of panties on males), the same diet and exercise routine. The only change is that instead of starting your day with a hardon and some masturbation, you’ll start locked in chastity and be denied an orgasm. Instead of going to bed and jerking off to fall asleep, you’ll go to bed and enjoy the feeling of the cage on your cock, holding you nice and secure.

Why would anyone want to limit their orgasms?!!

I heard you wondering about that, and I have an answer. Why would you limit your pleasure, your orgasms, your own sexuality even? Because it’s fun in and of itself, first off. You ever do that thing where you take a garden hose, and put your thumb over the opening, so the water suddenly spurts out so much faster and harder? Same thing, only your sexual pleasure is the water in this analogy. By restricting the expression and limiting the scope of your sexuality, when you do take off the cage and get to jerk off, it feels a thousand times better. The same way that having done a fast and then having that first double bacon cheeseburger right after can taste like heaven, by limiting your orgasms when you do get to cum you’ll really fucking enjoy the hell out of it.

If the concept of an orgasm so good you literally see God isn’t enough for you, I have a little thought exercise for you. Think of your average day, and all the tasks you have to get done within it. You have a set amount of energy each day to use for your tasks. What tasks are usually left over at the end of your day? What do you put off for ‘later’, or try to get done in a rush on the weekend? What if you could get more energy, time, and space in which to do all the things on your task list, just by reorganizing your priority tree? Take something that you do every single day, possibly multiple times a day, and simply eliminate it entirely, and in so doing, regain not just the energy you spent on that daily thing, but the energy you spent recovering from doing that thing? Haven’t you noticed yet that masturbation takes a lot of your effort, and then you have to recover from masturbating, clean up a bit, get your attention back on track, and re-start your tasks? Let’s just move ‘masturbate’ to a much lower tier, and see how much more you can get done each day.

Chastity can improve your sex life and your productivity!

Have I sold you on the male chastity life yet? Let’s talk a bit about how male chastity can refocus your mind and attitude, then. If you’re interested in submission and female domination, you should be interested in chastity, too. Even if your chastity is only on the weekends and overnight, the simple act of putting on your device, or reminding yourself that Mistress said no masturbation, will increase your personal awareness of yourself as a submissive. If you want to feel utterly owned, subdued, and controlled, there is no other rush like chastity for your Mistress. Instead of engaging in chastity for the benefits it brings you, lock your cock up for the benefit of your Mistress. You’ll be able to fully focus on whatever tasks She has assigned you, without having to think about your dick all the time. You’ll feel delightfully submissive and owned, knowing She has the key to your cock. And you’ll experience untold pleasure when She releases you and allows you to touch Her cock. Do it for your Mistress, if the personal benefits aren’t attractive enough for you.

I want you to be locked in chastity for me!

I can’t even begin to explain to you how much I enjoy knowing that you’re locked in chastity and waiting for my attention. Let me combine your chastity with some tease and denial games, or a couple of ruined orgasms, and I bet I can eventually teach you to cum repeatedly for me, or even on command, untouched! Chastity for you will improve your life and make you a better submissive, and it’ll bring me pleasure, too! Let me lock up your cock!

Your Male Chastity Lifestyle Coach, Mistress Harper