Have you ever wondered why you like being told what to do with your cock? Be honest now, surely you’ve spent at least a little time contemplating what makes you tick, what moves and drives your actions, especially when it comes to your orgasms. If you have, I wonder if you can be clear enough with yourself to admit to the truth of what drives you; and if you haven’t, I bet you’re about to be very surprised. What really makes masturbation instructions so attractive?

The secret to male sexuality?

A recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research on the motivations behind unsolicited dick pics revealed a startling trend: men send dick pics because they think that’s what women would like to see. In other words, men show women their penises because they really do find looking at a hard cock arousing, and assume the same to be true for women. Turns out, they’re not sending dick pics to intimidate, repulse, scare, or hurt women, but because they honestly do find it arousing to be seen.

There is another study, this time published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior on mirroring of erogenous zones, that has some interesting conclusions for us. When people are sexual with one another, they tend to touch their partner where they themselves would enjoy being touched. Which, yes, that makes logical sense. Here’s the fun part: in heterosexual relationships, men most of the time do enjoy touching women where women enjoy being touched, but women spend relatively less time touching men where they’d enjoy being touched (your feet, guys, it’s your feet!) But, when the respondents answered questions about level of arousal with only visual stimuli, women had higher levels of arousal from eye contact, while men were aroused by looking at their partners genitals.

Men are very visual, and enjoy looking at all sorts of cocks and pussies.

Why do men love masturbation instructions? Imagine if you will, a person who enjoys looking at cocks and pussies, including their own. This person is willing to reciprocate with their partner, and provide for them the attention, touch, and pleasure they’d like to receive in turn. Now imagine that this person can show someone their hard cock, and be told not only that they’re good, but that it’s sexy, and then be told exactly how to touch and please their partner, by touching their cock.

The real question is “why aren’t more men into masturbation instructions?”

If you haven’t tried it, you should. I think you’ll be amazed at how much fun you can have, just turning your cock over to a skilled Mistress, and letting us call the shots. Don’t you want to show me your cock? I want to see you, and see how hard you are for me.  I’d love to get to watch you stroke to my exact directions, to tease yourself in the ways I tell you to. I want you, hard and aching, and ready to touch yourself in front of me.

You can learn more about sexual mirroring and masturbation instructions by listening to the most recent Whore School episode. You can also join the Whore School discord server, or, if you’re free on Sunday nights, join the chat during the live show by heading to www.communitykink.com I’d love to have you with us.

Your Enthusiastic Masturbation Instructions Mistress, Mistress Harper