Does your sexual identity really matter?
For a lot of people, figuring out who you are and what you’re interested in seems to be an activity relegated solely to the stormy years of puberty. And that’s a damn shame, frankly. You, your identity, and your sexual identity are not concrete unchanging things that never shift or grow: the very opposite is true, actually! Your identity is not set in stone at any point in your lifespan, so of course, working on finding out who you really are is something that should be thought about and examined no matter how old you are. Your sexual identity, in particular, matters a great deal!
How do you discover your sexual identity?
I’ve got the best news ever for you! The path to discovering your own sexual identity is super fun and can bring you amazing new pleasure. Here’s how to figure out your own sexual identity: experiment. You’ve got to try on a lot of kinks and fetishes, really get down and dirty, and experiment like a fiend to figure out where you fit in. After all, how can you say you’re not into foot worship if you’ve never tried it? Are you certain you don’t like having your ass played with or fucked? Have you tried anal before?
Explore your sexual identity!
Dive on in, the water’s fine, I promise. Research, educate yourself, and then go forth and try it for yourself. Maybe you think foot worship is just the weirdest thing, and you could never be into. Give it a whirl, because you may discover that it hits your hidden humiliation and service button just right and that being on your knees to service a hot Mistress is actually right up your alley. You may discover that the part of your own sexual identity that you’d thought so concrete and unchangeable really is malleable and with hidden depths.
Don’t forget that we’ve got a special Virtual World extravaganza coming up in March 2018!
If you’d like to explore your sexual identity in the virtual world, we can help with that! Make yourself an account and avatar, then drop us a line. We’ll bring you to our private island of kink and fetish and help you explore the world, and your sexuality, virtually! And stay tuned for that big extravaganza, because it’s going to be awesome!
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Mis Harper, I could not agree with you more. Exploration and experimentation really never end as tastes evolve over time. I found your post to be quite supportive and I am sure many of our pets are grateful.
So true dearest Harper,
Taoists would agree that components of both masculine and feminine energy can be cultivated therefore tipping the scales for alternative desires.Even clearly defined masculine straight men can enjoy submissive penetration,with appropriate breathing and relaxation.Oh hell,with practice,you can get him to roll on some black satin stockings in the process!
You had me at ‘taoists’… and sealed the deal with some sensual stockings!
Everyone can enjoy the benefits of relaxing and trusting a partner to bring you only pleasure and bliss. It does something wonderful to our brains and minds, and relieves so much stress and anxiety. aaahhhhhh