A fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.
That’s taken straight from the definition given by google when you ask “what is a fetish?” And it’s what most people think of when they think of a ‘fetish’. I only quibble over one word in that definition, and that’s “abnormal.” Given what I do here, and how active I am in my community, I’d say that fetishes are pretty damn normal!
A cocksucking fetish is the sexual desire to perform, witness, or be the subject of, a blowjob.
That definition comes from my years of experience with folks who really enjoy cocksucking. I’ve known so many people who love the idea of getting on their knees and sucking a nice, thick, hard cock. The desire to suck a dick is not related to how a person identifies their sexuality, either! Men who identify themselves as straight frequently desire to kneel down lick a shaft, suck on balls, and swallow a load of cum fresh from another man’s cock.
Like most forms of fetishism, a cocksucking fetish is normal and common.
I have a lot of clients who worry that what they desire makes them freaks. They worry that they’re weird, or abnormal, or just plain odd. They, and you, are not abnormal, freakish or any other negative judgy word I could use. If the idea of sucking a cock turns you on, go for it. Nothing says you have to ever really kneel down and suck on one (though you probably won’t be happy until you actually follow through, at least once.) Being turned on by cocksucking is perfectly normal. After all, if cocksucking weren’t a huge turn on, it wouldn’t be featured so prominently in porn, now would it?
Even your informative posts are just so damn hot…
aww. You’re gonna make me blush, NB.
Ms. Harper, I agree with nb here!!
This post is both informative AND hot! I swear I DO have a cocksucking fetish. I LOVE to watch a nice cock being sucked, to watch men suck a realistic dildo on cam for me as practice, and even to visualize a cock being sucked when a sexy caller describes his trip to a glory hole or adult theater.
Yes to sexy and hot posts like this…and to cocksucking!
🙂 Ms. Delia
There is something so alluring about watching a nice big cock disappear into an eager cocksucker’s mouth… I just love it!
I’m glad you enjoyed my writing, I try to be informative and entertaining — people will listen better when they’re interested in the delivery. 😉
Ms Harper ~ Thank you, thank you, thank you! I do not know how many I have said it ~ being turned on by sucking a cock or thinking about it or anything else about is not weird or bad or odd – IT’S HOT!! We all have our own kinks. Cock sucking happens to be one of mine as well. I have to agree with what you said to Ms Delia there is something so alluring about watching a nice big cock being sucked.
Oh, the poor fellas who call in, convinced there’s something abnormal and weird about them for enjoying a nice blow job, or giving a nice blow job! Damn our Puritanical antecedents, they’ve surely screwed us up in so many ways. There’s nothing wrong with liking to suck a nice big cock. It’s fun! More people should try it. 😉