If you’re a sissy, you probably already know what the key to teaching you good manners is.
But a lot of people don’t know how to go about training a sissy to be a perfect little slut! It’s such a shame, too, because the key to sissy training is so obvious once you put a little thought to it. Sissies can be broken down into two types: on one side you’ve got the sissy cocksuckers, and on the other you’ve got your prissy sissies. Sissy cocksuckers love to kneel in front of a real man and suck every drop of thick creamy cum out of his balls. Prissy sissies just love to get dressed up in front of their Mistress and told how sweet they look.
As with all behavior modification training, you’ve gotta know what motivates your pet.
If your sissy is motivated by pretty dresses, huge cocks to suck, or being mocked in front of all your girlfriends, they all have the same basic lever that you can use to train them. They all desire something that you can provide or withhold as your whim and their behavior dictates. If my sissy has been very good for me, I reward her with the treat of her desire. Say my sissy loves to suck cock; if she’s been a good sissy, I’ll let her suck cock. But here’s the key: she’ll suck cock on MY terms, not her own.
The real training happens in the midst of the positive reinforcement.
This goes for all sorts of training. The positive stimulus, the thing they enjoy, crave, want, lust after… that’s the learning moment. You love to suck cock? Good. I can use that love of cocksucking to get you open to all sorts of other behaviors that I want to encourage. In the behavior modification world it’s called ‘entraining’; link the positive reward to the desired behavior.
So, my sissy slut has been very good lately.
She’s worn her outfit without complaining, she’s done everything I asked of her, and she’s been very sweet and demure. So her reward is a nice fat cock to suck… while dressed in lingerie, on her knees, in front of my friends, in the middle of a party. See, I want her to associate sucking a cock with being dressed up and put on display. That’s the training! She’s already been doing what I want, so her reward is something she likes mixed with new behavior I want to reinforce.
The key to training a sissy?
Positive reinforcement mixed with new behaviors. Easy peasy!
For some reason, the idea of this is a real turn on, even if the exact fantasy isn’t really my thing.
A lot of people like the idea of just how easy it would be for someone with the right insight to remake them in unexpected ways. It’s always a headtrip to realize how malleable our desires are…
I fantasize about sucking cock, and don’t know if I ever will. I would love to be on my knees dressed in lingerie at your party!
And you would look lovely all dressed up for me, Dena! I’d really enjoy guiding you through sucking your very first cock!
I’ve also found at least with My sissy that they may not always know what they want. The key to reinforcement is learning exactly what they like. It’s sort of like going to an ice cream store for the first time and getting to taste ice cream. The fun at least for me is in the exploration with the sissy. I love when a sissy learns all the new flavors and toys for the first time! (Or, maybe I just love breaking in new virgins!!! ROFL)
I have been known to offer new play partners the ‘smorgasbord’. It’s a little of everything, and I do mean everything! That way they can look back later and pick the bits they liked best, and I can point out the parts where they reacted most. 😀
I absolutely love the concept of behavior modification. Great look into your methods of accomplishing that!