One of the fun things about Humiliation play is how we can take our games outside!
Semi-public Humiliation is right up on the list of my favorite ways to humiliate you. It’s hard, though, to walk the line between semi-public and really overt. Remember, I’m a consent junkie, so I never want to include bystanders in our kinky games without their permission ahead of time! That said, it’s fairly easy to use innuendo and sly word play to put you in your place with everyone around us none the wiser.
Semi-public humiliation is exactly what it says on the wrapper.
I’m not talking about making you walk down the road nude so everyone can see exactly how small your tally-whacker is. Oh no. But having you hold my purse while I try on a cute outfit? Oh yes. Asking a cute guy about his opinion on my outfit without looking at you at all? You betcha! Breezing past the checkout, with the obvious assumption that of course you’ll take care of that for me, letting you juggle the bags and boxes from other stops, plus the purse, while I call for you to hurry up, darling, my spa appointment is coming up!
It’s all in the implications, and in what other people are going to be assuming about you and I.
It’s semi-public because it is out in the open, but none of it’s overt, it’s never a blatant “oh yeah, he’s my bitch.” Instead, it’s subtle, simple, and relies upon what other people are going to be thinking about you. And really, about what you’re going to think they’re thinking. You know what they’re thinking, what they’re going to go home and tell their friends they saw today. “Oh my gosh, there was this total loser at the store today, such a lap dog of a man. He was just whipped! I bet he’s got a tiny dick, that’s why he’s so eager to let his girlfriend boss him around like that.”
Would you like to play a semi-public humiliation game with me?
I bet I can get you hard and aching in public, embarrassed and squirming in humiliation… it’ll be fun!
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Oh Harper – the first LDW prom, I went with Layla all out and paid for a photo sh00t (images from it are still on my EE profile I think)
The photographer had an assistant for the make-up – and after the shoot, she told me she forgot to bring her make-up removal kit. She gave a list of things to buy.
I don’t drive. I had to walk from the studio to buy make-up removal stuff and then walk to a fast-food restaurant and remove the make-up in the bathroom.
The photographer’s assistant, she had photos on her facebook wearing things like a shirt that says “I have the pussy so I make the rules” and that Darwin sequence of the evolution of man ending with him kneeling before a woman.
I told them when arranging the photo sh00t that it was for an online femdom prom and that I had never done anything like this before, and there’s a part of me that wonders if the photographers assistant was having fun with me. Maybe even her way of flirting with me? I don’t know.
But even though it was humiliating to have to go out in public with full make-up and painted nails in a somewhat conservative town (always votes with religious right) at the same time it was kind of fun.
Buying the panties for the prom with Layla was also fun – the Victoria’s Secret clerk knew I was being instructed on what panties to buy for myself over the phone, and it was obvious she was hiding a smirk.
A little gentle humiliation like that can be very fun and spicy! And I bet the makeup artist was indeed playing with you a bit. I can’t imagine going out to do a pro shoot and leaving the remover at home!!! I’m glad you enjoyed your foray into public humiliation. Purchasing panties with Layla must have been a lot of fun too, I bet that clerk was giggling about it later.
I have a story of my own in this vein. I think I have the whole anecdote written up somewhere and if I can find I’ll come back and post it, but the cliff notes version goes like this: a few years back, Ms. Alexandria gave me an assignment to go to a sex store and buy a butt plug. The clerk who helped me made the purchase was very friendly, throwing in some helpful tips and the like. We make it to the counter, items now “hidden safely” in the bag, away from the eyes of potentially peering customers, and I think I’ve made a clean getaway. Then as the clerk’s ringing me up, she asks me “So R___, are you still playing in the Texas Holdem tournaments being hosted at the bars?”
To quote Fight Club, “we’ve just lost cabin pressure…”
Oh no! LOL. yeah, that’d bring a whole new level to the proceedings. heh.
I’ve been subjected to semi-public humiliation, and while it wasn’t really my think it was definitely a memorable experience!
it’s not for everyone, and that’s ok. For those that do like, it, semi-public can be very fun. I certainly like watching you squirm…
We lost Rod! Oh noes! Alice, Fisty, Doubletee!!! good job.
Found this one as well!
This happened as my massuse gave me her purse to go shopping. Other mistresses/sissies said she made me her bitch and her cream puff. I did as she asked without question. I also came out and told her I like wearing women’s clothes/boots and she said to be myself and not worry about what others think and say. I bought came body lotion she uses as well and she said she will use it on me for massages. It’s Japanese cherry blossom. She caught me off guard by hugging me and giving me lipstick kisses on my cheeks after I bought her champagne and bath tub stand for her birthday. I got invited to her place for thanksgiving. Only negative is she’s married with 3 kids. After what’s happened though she has her nails dug into me with no intention of letting me go. I’m her cream puff for real. I never though women would do this to me but it’s happened and I’m glad.