Do you have what it takes to live the Cuckold Life? It’s not for everyone! Some men can find a lot of peace and acceptance once they start really living as a cuckold, with all that holds, while others find themselves lost, lonely, and sexually dissatisfied. Is the cuckold life for you? Let’s find out if you have what it takes to really thrive as a cuckold, to stay home while your wife or girlfriend goes out on dates, or even finds herself a lover! I’ve helped a lot of men come to accept and understand themselves as a cuckold, and I can help you, too. Buckle up, we’re gonna look at what it really takes to be a happy cuckold.

What is the cuckold life like?

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For a lot of men, when you tell them they’re going to be a cuckold now and there’s nothing they can do about it, it’s like the curtain of doom falling on their entire life. But I think they’re missing out on a lot of nuance, and leaping straight to anguish and assumptions about how terrible everything is going to be from now on. The cuckold life isn’t like what you see in pornos! The stereotype is that a cuckold is a limp wristed sissy, a cock sucking faggot, and a total abject looser. The truth couldn’t be further from the truth.

A cuckold is a man who has decided to place his partner’s happiness and sexual desires above his own.

All the rest of what’s going on around that cuckold is extra details. Not all cuckolds suck cock, not all sweet cuckies are limp wristed cartoon characters. The reality of the situation is that some cuckolds are also sissies or cuckold cocksuckers, but some are not. I may personally like to mix and match various fetishes to create a complex and overlapping Venn Diagram of awesome sexual fun, but there are those who are perfectly happy with just one kinky element at a time. A cuckold is, simply, a man who doesn’t demand monogamy from his female partners.

Is the cuckold life for you?

I’ve seen a lot of marriages and relationships fail due to sexual incompatibility. When one person in a relationship is unhappy or unfulfilled, for whatever reason, that can leave stains on the entire relationship, turning what could have been a happy and mutually fulfilling relationship into a soggy puddle of failure and recriminations. The cuckold life can be for you, if you can put your ego and need to be the only source of sexual pleasure for your wife or girlfriend aside. Drop the idea that you have to be everything!

You don’t have to be everything your partner needs!

Frankly, trying to be everything and anything your partner needs in life is exhausting. I know I certainly refuse to even try, and encourage all my lovers to find other relationships to enjoy along with the relationship with me. I date several people at a time, at varying levels of intimacy, energetic connection, and sexual compatibility. It’s incredibly freeing, to know that at no point is someone depending on only me to meet all of their needs, and to know that I don’t have to limit myself and my needs to what just one person can supply! Let go of the idea that you have to do it all, and embrace the cuckold life!

At the heart of things, the cuckold life is about freedom.

If you’ve worried that you can’t please your wife, or if you think that surely your girlfriend might like to fuck that guy with the really big cock, or if you just kinda want to watch, the cuckold life is for you! Imagine the joy of knowing that your wife is finally getting the amazing, mind-blowing orgasm that she deserves. Picture yourself sitting in the corner, watching as your girlfriend sucks a big thick cock, before slowing sitting down on it and taking it all the way in. Now picture your partner smiling at you, and thanking you, for not being a jealous and controlling asshole who put his own fragile ego ahead of her pleasure.

Are you ready to embrace the cuckold life?

Even if you just want to embrace the cuckold lifestyle a little bit one weekend, that’s great! Variety is the spice of life, so, a little weekend getaway and wild threesome can be exactly what your relationship needs. You can explore the cuckold lifestyle a little bit at a time, before you jump in with both feet. You can decide how much of the stereotype you want to embrace, or how much of an iconoclast you want to be. Just, give it some serious thought. Are you letting your own ego and desire to be at the center of your wife’s pleasure and sex life hold her back from what she really needs?

When you’re ready, I’ll be here, waiting to help guide you forward.

I told you I’ve done this before! And I live the life! If anyone is going to understand your desire to explore a little cuckold fantasy or talk through your feelings after that wild weekend getaway, it’s me. Drop me a line, or call me up, and we can discuss your wildest fantasies and fondest memories.

xoxo, Your Fetish Mistress Harper