I get a lot of guys asking me about how to maximize their pleasure when masturbating.

It’s really very simple! For a lot of men, masturbation is a process that is best done quickly, with an orgasm as the end goal. You get comfortable, pull our your cock, stroke quickly and with the sort of grip you first learned in puberty, and a couple minutes later you’re all done. Am I right? It’s a wham, bam, time to clean up the mess sort of a process, and it only takes a few minutes out of your day. And it’s all wrong if you want an orgasm to make your eyes roll back in your head. Plus, it’s boring.

The usual masturbation process for men is not optimal for getting the most amazing orgasm you’ve ever experienced.

Anything that can be described as ‘routine’, ‘usual’, or, heaven forefend!, ‘a process’, is just oozing with boring energy, lackluster lust, and unappealing mundane regularity. Now, yes, sometimes you just need to dump a load of cum. But sometimes don’t you want something a little more? For those times you want some ‘more’ for your masturbation, allow me to suggest some cocktease play and edging games.

Here are three small keys to huge orgasmic bliss:

1. Take your time. Patience is key! If you only have five minutes to let off some steam, then so be it. But if you can carve out a half an hour, hour, or more to really indulge, you’ll discover that putting off the end goal for a while can be huge fun. Take your time stroking, don’t rush to hurry up and cum, and let the journey to orgasm be the whole point!
2. Variety is the spice of life, as well as the spice of orgasm. Mix up your stroke technique, try new speeds, different pressures, even different types of cockteasing! Try using just one finger, or only your palm. Pay attention to other erogenous zones on your body, like your nipples, your inner thighs, or your ass.
3. Self control leads to great things in life and in bed. If you’re not very good at controlling yourself, at stopping yourself from cumming too soon, then hand that control over to one of the Cock Control Mistresses! Edging is all about getting really close to cumming and then stopping, staying there, or cooling off and starting over again. And the orgasm you will have when you finally let yourself go? Mind blowing.