If you’re a sissy, you already know what I mean when I say, ‘sissy costume pretext’, don’t you? Of course, you do! And, with Halloween coming, you probably are already eyeing your wardrobe (or your wife or girlfriend’s wardrobe) for potential outfits! Sissies, I love to be the one to tell you that your thinly veiled costume pretext isn’t fooling anyone. We all know when we see a man in a dress out at a party that he’s not nearly so reluctant as he pretends!

Have you used the sissy costume pretext as an excuse to dress up in public?

Don’t worry if you have, you’re definitely not alone. Whether it’s a Halloween party or a “lost bet”, sissies often use some sort of pretext to explain away their wardrobe choices when in public spaces. After all, not everyone is quite ready to admit they just plain ol’ like to dress up like a sissy bitch! And having a little explainer handy for in case some nosy parker sticks their face into what’s not their business is a smart plan. It’s just, as a Mistress, when I see someone out in public in poorly curated outfits and sloppy makeup, I know they’re either trying to hide a secret behind weaponized incompetence, or they’re really into erotic humiliation. But a sissy in a perfect outfit with flawless makeup? Oh honey, I hope you get pegged as a reward!

Ever feel like you need to make an excuse for why you are the way you are?

I’ve written about, and podcasted about, Shame and Guilt, and how they can steal your joy and make you shorten yourself. This goes for every sissy’s dream of being dressed in public! Gurl, don’t let yourself get so caught up in your costuming pretext that you forget to have fun with it! Dress the way you want to dress. If you’re “too good” at doing your makeup, just wave a hand and tell your audience that you watch too much Drag Race. Keep the pretext as thin as you can, so that you don’t wind up loading yourself down with too much shame or guilt over having a really good time being all dressed up and sweet.

Don’t forget: Cocktober is coming!

In addition to our ongoing Calls and Balls Sunday Football promotion, in which all calls between 10 am and 10 pm Eastern get 10% off, there’s a new special for October! For Cocktoberfest enjoy Cocktail Hours between 5 pm and 8 pm Monday through Friday enjoy rollback pricing: all calls are $2.75 per minute (ten minute minimum of course). I expect to have you all calling for your extra spooky Halloween themed erotic conversations (or just regular spooky conversations, those are fun every month!) Keep your eyes peeled for the Halloween Blog Train, an Enchantrix Empire tradition, in which the Ladies all work extra hard to bring you the very best in Halloween themed erotica, how-to’s, and extra creepy blog posts!

Are you planning anything special for Locktober? …I mean October.

If you’re looking for inspiration, give me a call, I always have ideas for what you need to be doing to increase your erotic enjoyment. And as a lead-in to No Nut November, Locktober just makes sense! Whether you’re celebrating edging and spooky erotica with Cocktober, all things chastity and denial with Locktober, or just want to hear a scary story about demons out to own your penis (it me!) give me a call or arrange a text session if you’re afraid my sexy voice will make you lose your soul.

Winter is coming, but before it gets here Fall is in full swing.

Come play with us in October! You’ll love all the treats we have for you, and the tricks aren’t half bad either!

Your Costuming Expert Mistress, Harper