First up, I want you to know that if you’re new to chastity training, you don’t have to start on the extreme end of the scale.
When you’re embarking on the wide and wonderful world of chastity training, it can be very tempting to jump into the deep end and go for broke. You’ll be tempted to invest in a high quality chastity device, to go get a time lock, or programmable lock, or those cute disposable ones with the serial numbers. You’ll want to find a keyholder and devote your lack of orgasms to her. I’m talking whole hog, spend the savings account for cool new toys, and promise to be chaste for months on end. It’s tempting!
Chastity training for beginners is totally different from what long term chastity addicts go through.
Just starting out, I want you to flirt with the idea of chastity. Take your time getting used to the idea, and let yourself come to accept chastity on your own terms. To be chaste is to refrain from gratuitous masturbation; when you are chaste for me, your cock and your orgasm become precious treasures that I’ll only dole out when you’ve been very good for me. Chastity is taking cock control to a whole new level: cock ownership. That’s my cock now, and I get to say whether or not you get to cum for me.
In the beginning of your chastity training, you’ll only be in chastity for me for short periods of time.
As an example, for one of my new chastity slaves, I’ve set up a program wherein he does not have to be locked in chastity all the time for me. Instead, when and where he can, he is to lock himself up, and let me know when he is in chastity for me. I like to be flexible when it comes to what we do together, and with the internet, I can be intimately connected to you at all times. Every time you lock up your cock in my honor, I want to know about it! Every edge, every ruined orgasm, every time you self deny…
Another chastity slut of mine likes to be locked up more often. I keep him in chastity during the week, and let him out to play on the weekends. Each weekend, he has to meet a quota of edges before I’ll let him orgasm for me. Given my love of math geekery, is it any surprise that I’m using the Fibonacci sequence again? He’s up to 89 edges this weekend before he earns his orgasm. If he fails to make it to midnight Sunday, he has to lock back up again, without cumming!
When you’re starting your chastity training you don’t need a lot of expensive equipment.
You can use a jock strap and tighty whiteys. You can trap your cock in a tight pink thong. You can use the honor system, even! Just promise to be very, very good for me, on your honor, and then let’s see how long you last before your hand finds its way down between your legs and starts to stroke. A chastity device is a tool to ensure your compliance with my will; it’s a toy to help you feel more controlled and less willful. A chastity device can be a lot of fun, but it is in no way required!
iam new to chastity training so iam willing let you be my teacher on these thing i very kinky and i mostly love good spanking as well so i hope chastity and good spankings is with you
oh, you’re willing, eh? 😉
What’s the longest you’ve been chaste for?
Yes iam Willing eh make easier for you lol wouldnt you agree
longest i been chaste for is never been chaste before
Oh dear, never?
Well, let’s see if you can start now. Don’t touch yourself at all for one 24 hour day. No stroking, no touching, no edging, no cumming. Let’s see if you can make it a whole day, first. 😉
wow since i finally seeing this iam sure i can start now and for 24 hours starting now i will not touch myself i know can go whole day if not you get give me hard spanking or make me spank myself
…I don’t know whether to wish you make it or wish you get a spanking!
LOl ok i understand but so far iam doing good but iam sure i would need spankin for something else if i make it can i give you a spanking
You want to spank me?!
Darling, to get to spank me, you’d need to be chaste for at least a year, and then I’d also have to really like you a lot. One day isn’t going to cut it. lol!
Hello miss Harper,
I have tried out chastity before and the longest I wore my cage is 36h it falls off sometimes when I’m soft:( but it was the smallest I could find.
Would you like to be in charge of my little cock?
only 36 hours?
I think you can do better.
And if a traditional chastity device isn’t working, we’l just need to get creative! Try a pair of women’s bikini bottoms, one size smaller than you’d normally wear them, to hold that little dick down and top it from getting you in trouble.
yes i want spank you i know be impossible i know i cant last a year of being chasite but i did last one day never touched myself.so was a good boy yesterday and still am good boy hope you will like me lot so i can spank you but something tell me you be spanking me lot more so i be getting spanked more then you
I’ve spent time in a chastity device (cb6k) but never really spent a meaningful amount of time- maybe 2-3 days at most- and would be very willing for you to be my teacher 🙂
I would love to talk about chastity with you Miss Harper!
Its a strong fetisch for me thats only been really played once before.