I bet you’re already aware that there’s a huge fetish for sucking the cock of a “shemale”. I even bet that you’re a fan of that idea yourself! Let’s be real, it’s a hot fantasy. Imagine all the fun and joy of sucking cock, but it’s with a woman with nice tits and a pretty face, instead of some hairy and smelly dude. We all know that trans women in general are more concerned with little feminine things like hygiene and perfume, and that they do tend to take their time to ensure they look really nice in all the right ways. The dream of sucking shemale cock is real, and I’d love to watch you make that dream a reality.

Of course, there’s the small social issue of respectability surrounding shemale cock sucking.

And not in the way you’re thinking! You should know by now that I would never shame you for your sexual desires and fantasies. The mind and unconscious mind have desires that sometimes don’t answer to logic or propriety. That’s perfectly ok! Wanting to suck cock is perfectly normal and understandable. Of course you’d be curious, and the package is inviting, and then your mind wanders and pretty soon you’re thinking about long manicured nails pulling your hair to guide your mouth down to a lovely hard cock. I get that!

The problem with shemale cock worship…

You really shouldn’t call trans women “shemale”. The word is demeaning and a slur, and calling a person by what their body looks like is dehumanizing. You’re ignoring the lovely, vibrant, and vital PERSON in front of you, in order to make your sexual dreams come true. She’s a person, damn it. And she is a woman, who just so happens to have a penis. A penis that you want to suck, and lick, and make cum all over your face. If you want to get your dreams fulfilled by a lovely trans woman, you need to approach her the exact same way you’d approach ME.

Here’s how you convince a trans woman to cum on your face:

Treat her like a Lady. Act with respect around her! Don’t call her dirty names right off the bat (in the bedroom, that can be hot, but out to dinner to her face? Do you enjoy wearing your wine on your face, because she’s gonna toss that wine right in your face, and what’s more, you’ll deserve it.) You approach a trans woman for a date the same way you approach a woman, or better yet, a Mistress. You ask her nicely if she might be interested in going out with you sometime, and then you make a fucking effort to impress her. Flowers, chocolates, fine dining, wine, and dancing. Or a movie and a walk in a pretty and well lit park. Or, if you’re both nerds, go to the comic book shop and get a hundred dollars worth of new releases. Something enjoyable, and NOT SEX RELATED. Get to know her as a person, so that when you ask her to do filthy perverted things to help you get off, she’ll know that’s not all you see her as. She’s not just a fantasy fetish orgasm producer for you.

The other option to get a shemale to let you suck her cock?

Pay her. I know, so crass. But it’s the truth! A lot of trans women are open to dates for money, in order to help finance their surgeries and transitions. Do not assume that all trans women are open to dating you for cash, however! The internet is full of places to go find a little companionship, and I’m sure your perverted little mind knows all the best sites to go browse for friendly folks. Remember to bathe before your date, wash under and behind your genitals, clean your ass, shave and put on some lotion so you don’t give her beard burn on her thighs. Use a little body spray or cologne, but not too much, you don’t want to clash with her perfume or gas her out with overwhelming smells (and body spray is NOT a replacement for bathing!) Bring cash, and make sure you have enough to leave a tip. Do not straight up ask in writing with her about ‘services’, ‘payment rates’, or directly solicit her, because that creates a paper trail and implicates both of you. Euphemisms are your friend.

Once you’ve secured a relationship with a lovely woman with a penis…

Go for it! Be up front and honest about what you want and what you can offer. If all you’re looking for is a curiosity indulging blow job, tell her that! Be honest about your experience, or lack thereof, and honest about how far you want to go. Adults have these conversations all the time. A little flattery goes a long way, so be nice, and polite, and then ask for what you want. You will absolutely not get to suck a shemale cock if all you do is sit there and look at her meaningfully. Say the words, out loud, to her face, and if you’re lucky, you’ll get to experience shemale cock sucking.

Confused? Need more guidance? Call me!

Your Cock Sucking Trainer, Mistress Harper