My name is Harper. I’m sure you’ve followed links to find my blog, perhaps you’ve searched for me and finally found my home on the web. Welcome! I’m glad you’re here. I want you to feel very free to comment, communicate and interact with me. I promise that I only bite if you ask me very very nicely.

I know you’re all terribly curious about what makes Ms Harper ‘tick.’ I can provide you with a few details, hopefully enough to satisfy you for now… I just turned 28 in December ’10. I have a degree from a very prestigious university in Texas in Psychology and intend to continue my studies in that field. I am a sex activist, a gender rights activist and I do work for GLBT rights.

Several of my close friends are trans, and because I tend to delve deeply into subjects that interest me, I researched and became fascinated by trans issues. I got into gender issues at the same time, which dragged me into the psychology of sex, sex therapy and thence to kink and fetish issues.

I suppose you know what I’m going to be specializing in for my practice, don’t you?

As I started to explore the world of sex, of kinks and fetishes and gender bending, I discovered that there was something deep inside of myself that resonated with what I was exploring. I’m honest enough, and self aware enough, that finally admitting to myself that I am a sadist, that I am fascinated by power play and power exchange, and that there’s just something so fucking sexy about BDSM was almost a non-event.

I felt lighter, freer, and began to throw myself into the world of kink and fetish sex in earnest.

I love to play with the idea of gender; sissies, crossdressing, gender bending… All huge turn ons for me.

My sadistic streak means that impact play was one of the first things I explored, and it remains very very close to my heart. I made my first flogger, and still have it! Leather and a dowel rod handle, my flogger is my most well used sex toy. I hope to someday master the single tail whip as well.

I’ve discovered lately that my fantasies and sexual daydreams have taken a darker turn. I dream of controlling a submissive, owning them intimately from the mind out through the skin. I want to posses someone so completely that they can’t even think about anything other than me… and I want them to crawl to me and beg me to own them even more.

Mental games, mind fucking and using what I know about the way the mind works to bend a willing subject to my will; helping clients come to understand that what they want and need is normal, natural and should be embraced; building relationships that are mutually satisfying and impactful — these are the core things that drive me.

I am an intensely sexual intelligent woman, seeking partners in my perverted dance. I want to hear your confessions about your deepest desires, I want to listen to you gasping in pain or pleasure, I want to know that I can effect you.