My name is Harper. I’m sure you’ve followed links to find my blog, perhaps you’ve searched for me and finally found my home on the web. Welcome! I’m glad you’re here. I want you to feel very free to comment, communicate and interact with me. I promise that I only bite if you ask me very very nicely.
I know you’re all terribly curious about what makes Ms Harper ‘tick.’ I can provide you with a few details, hopefully enough to satisfy you for now… I just turned 28 in December ’10. I have a degree from a very prestigious university in Texas in Psychology and intend to continue my studies in that field. I am a sex activist, a gender rights activist and I do work for GLBT rights.
Several of my close friends are trans, and because I tend to delve deeply into subjects that interest me, I researched and became fascinated by trans issues. I got into gender issues at the same time, which dragged me into the psychology of sex, sex therapy and thence to kink and fetish issues.
I suppose you know what I’m going to be specializing in for my practice, don’t you?
As I started to explore the world of sex, of kinks and fetishes and gender bending, I discovered that there was something deep inside of myself that resonated with what I was exploring. I’m honest enough, and self aware enough, that finally admitting to myself that I am a sadist, that I am fascinated by power play and power exchange, and that there’s just something so fucking sexy about BDSM was almost a non-event.
I felt lighter, freer, and began to throw myself into the world of kink and fetish sex in earnest.
I love to play with the idea of gender; sissies, crossdressing, gender bending… All huge turn ons for me.
My sadistic streak means that impact play was one of the first things I explored, and it remains very very close to my heart. I made my first flogger, and still have it! Leather and a dowel rod handle, my flogger is my most well used sex toy. I hope to someday master the single tail whip as well.
I’ve discovered lately that my fantasies and sexual daydreams have taken a darker turn. I dream of controlling a submissive, owning them intimately from the mind out through the skin. I want to posses someone so completely that they can’t even think about anything other than me… and I want them to crawl to me and beg me to own them even more.
Mental games, mind fucking and using what I know about the way the mind works to bend a willing subject to my will; helping clients come to understand that what they want and need is normal, natural and should be embraced; building relationships that are mutually satisfying and impactful — these are the core things that drive me.
I am an intensely sexual intelligent woman, seeking partners in my perverted dance. I want to hear your confessions about your deepest desires, I want to listen to you gasping in pain or pleasure, I want to know that I can effect you.
I desperately want to feel extremely free to comment, communicate; and, interact with you!
I wish I could be part of your studies on sexual psychology! I wish I could be your favorite person to study. I would definately appreciate it if you would allow me to assist you in the continuance of your practice (even after you leave this site; and, go into private practice).
I have ALWAYS been more than attracted to a woman who has a strong sadist streak in her as this is the only kind of woman that I am able to be myself around!
I would do almost anything for you if you performed psychological mind-games; and, manipulation with me in gender-bending me (as this is a HUGE turn on for me)!
I wish that you would own me intmately through my mind and skin. I also wish that you could possess me so completely that I can’t even think about anyone other than you!!!!
I would love to be able to crawl to you as I beg you to own me!
You have NO idea of how deeply I am into mental games; and, mind fucking as you use what you know about how the mind works to bend me to your will!
I desperately wish that I could be your favorite; and, only client as I help both of us in understanding your studies.
I wish that I could be your favorite partner in your perverted dance.
I wish I could confess my deepest, darkest desires to you and you alone.
Unfortunately, with as attractive and intelligent as you are I have no way of maintaing your interest in me. However, if I do have a chance, no matter how small I wish you would let me know!
I am sorry that I returned to your first blog; however, I started to think that most guys didn’t even pay attention to this. They just proceeded on to your other postings.
I would really love to develop a relationship with you.
I am ashamed to admit that I waited to see if you would be on-line tonight so I could see if I would have gotten a response from you. Unfortunately, I will have to wait for another time to see if you choose to respond. 🙁
are you busy?
I wish You would have responded to these blogs from 4 years ago.
Now you’re making me paranoid… how far back in the archives have you delved?