There’s a problem with the entire idea of a Mind Fuck.
I frequently have submissives approach me with a seemingly simple request: they want me to fuck with their heads. The problem with their request is that they’re asking for one thing and expecting another; to whit, when you ask me to fuck with your mind, you’ve got an idea already in place about what’s going to happen, and by its very definition, a mind fuck cannot be anticipated! A proper deep, pounding mind fuck will leave you absolutely dumbfounded and lost in amazement, wondering how the hell you wound up where you are. If you walk in thinking you know where you’re gonna wind up…
Part of the real fun of a Mind Fuck is the anticipation.
I do enjoy fucking with your head. I like the challenge of taking you somewhere you never thought you’d go, giving you an experience so unique and unusual that it brands itself into your mind and changes everything you thought you knew about yourself. The best way to create a truly grand mind fuck is to hit you with it when you’re not expecting it, when you can’t anticipate where I’m going with the experience — but I know you want to have the fun of the anticipation too!
So let’s say you want to have your mind fucked. How do you ask for something if you can’t be specific about it?
This works best if you give me a list of possible ingredients, and then trust me to make a great meal from it. I may not use all the ingredients you hand me, I might even add in a few that you’d never thought to use before, but, if you trust me to fuck with your mind on my terms, I can promise that you will wind up amazed and aghast and absolutely dumbfounded over where we go together.
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I can say without a doubt that you are exceptional at the mind fuck. I would actually say that is your specialty. Where as I just will tell a person exactly what I’m going to do. Ready or not, here comes the strap on. You are all about twisting and turning and never actually knowing what is going to be next. Perfect!!! Speaking of which, it’s been eons since you’ve played Me. 🙂 I think being on a St Andrew’s cross with you weilding a flogger might be fun don’t you?
You know that’s gonna make all the boys loose their minds… which hey! Mind Fuck!
I love it. It’d be fun to let your submissives watch, too. At least, fun for me, because then I’d be dominating them, too, by proxy.
Mind fucks can absolutely be a delightful form of D/s play! I agree wholeheartedly with what you said about a submissive attempting to elicit this type of play; a successful mindfuck thrives on the element of the unknown and surprise. If the sub has a very specific concept about how the mindfuck will play out, then sadly, its not going to be effective at all. He or she must trust in the process and in their dominant to take them to that seductive, exciting place. In fact, its often the “getting there” part that lends itself to the most excitement! What will happen next? Is she going to do_____? And my fave, “how did I get myself into this?” LOL!
I really enjoyed this piece, Ms Harper. 🙂
Thank you Ava!
I think the moment of “wait, what?” is the best. Because by then they’re to far down the rabbit hole to get themselves back out! lol!
Oh Ms. Harper!
You can and do mindfuck, and I know it because I LOVE to mindfuck too! I think my favorite way that you can get into someone’s head (just think of our fuck pole stroker, lol) is how you change your voice, modulating it to be so sexy and soft that a man is just putty in your hands. 20 orgasms in a row…absolutely. He would do ANYTHING for you 🙂
Ms. Delia
Ms Harper ~ I too love the mind fuck. I think many times what someone wants exactly that but have no idea what it is or how to get it. That is when an expert mind fuck Mistress such as yourself comes into play. You can read through all the lines and gives exactly what is needed. And like Ms Delia said, leave him where he would do anything for you. Great post, Ms Harper.
I found this on Tumblr and it made me think immediately of this blog post.
I want to be Ruby. Yes, I do.
http://hypnotized-angel.tumblr.com/post/67925960873/rubys-mindfuck-by-evilt-love-it-wanna-be-ruby
Great thoughts about Mind Fuck play Ms. Harper, and you are so right, the surprise that mind games brings, is at least half the fun… half the excitement! To be able to really push those boundaries and offer a real challenge, we as Mistresses, do need to be able to plot the situation and take our helpless subs by surprise.
I happen to know that you are more than capable of toying with a little mind of any sub… let’s just hope that you are able to really take that mind of his for a twisted adventure!
Given the choice, Id rather be an actual girl than a sissy. Redheaded Alyson Hannigan is my wish self