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Week One of the Winter Blue Balls Challenge

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Give me control over your cock

It’s been seven days since the kickoff of the Winter Blue Balls Challenge!

I know there are lots of you out there following along at home, and good for you! Stroke those cocks and remember: no orgasms ’til Santa Cums! If you’re not playing along, well, what’s stopping you?

Out in the real world, I have a lot of friends who know what I do on the phone.

They’re all curious but too polite to ask about what I do. When I talk with them, I discover a lot of misconceptions about my avocation, and an awful lot of hesitance and a lack of information about the kinky shit we like to play with. And the most misunderstood has to be the idea of  ‘edging to orgasm‘.

The Blue Balls Challenge features a lot of edging play.

So, let me be explicitly clear about exactly what ‘edging play’ is! When I tell you to stroke to the edge of orgasm, what I mean is that I want you to stroke your cock until you feel like you’re about to orgasm, and then either slow down, or stop stroking entirely.

If you look at a graph of sexual arousal, you’ll see a pretty stereotypical image.

There’s a curve up to a plateau, followed by a sharp spike and then an abrupt A graph of what happens when you cum for me. 800 601 7259drop. The curve is the foreplay and teasing and stroking, the plateau is where you get right before you cum, the spike is the orgasm, and then (for males), there’s a sharp drop back to baseline. (For some lucky women, that sharp drop off isn’t so abrupt, and we can go back to the plateau and build back to orgasm again.)

Edging is the practice of getting to the plateau in arousal and staying there.

The longer you stay on the plateau, the higher the spike of orgasm afterwards. Which is the entire point of the Blue Balls Challenge! Let’s get that plateau to last as long as possible, and get you as horny as possible, before you finally get your release.

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