And yes, I did indeed have a delightful birthday. Plenty of opportunities to dish out sweet and nasty phone sex, plus extra love from my dear boys and girlies…what more can a femdom goddess ask?

So thanks to those who called especially to wish me well on my special day, including I., C., and my dear deviant one—who knows perfectly well who he is! And thanks also to several of you for recent thoughtful gifts, for my birthday and not: I. for the lovely care package, M. for the gorgeous Asian-style decor item, J. for the delicious gift of successive layers, C. for the gift of entertainment, and G. and K. for your well-appreciated tributes.

Now, as always, I do enjoy being generous in return, so I’ll let you in on a fun little free event that I’ll be holding tonight, Tuesday, at 7pm—it’s a belated birthday party during the weekly chat hour that I host with Ms. Tara! You can find details about the chat and its location on my schedule page, which is accessible through the link on the upper right-hand side of this page. And because that chat is specially targeted to sissies and my beloved sissybabies (but as always, open to all you open-minded folk!), you can also glean a few more details about the event by checking my special adult-babies blog.

Whether you come to the party today or not, do note that today is the last day that I’ll be here for calls before I take a midweek minivacation! Details are on my schedule page, but here’s a hint: in order to accommodate your cravings, I’ll be here late tonight.

Actually, in case you haven’t noticed, I am also offering a small extra window of availability on most Tuesdays now, starting right around noon Eastern. I tested the slot once as a lark and discovered that you all really appreciate having me around then, so it’s a keeper!

Now, if you should still be shut out in your attempt to reach me today, I will be back Friday. Though the question is, can you manage to wait that long? Because it’s funny, isn’t it—how even just my saying that makes you suddenly want to talk to me all the more…

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Though actually it is already quite special, because tonight is the last Thursday that I’ll be around before midsummer! But meanwhile, I’m here and ready to play with you, before and after my party-line event.

Now, keep in mind that the party-line event is a live performance, of which there will be no recordings later available (though if you ask nicely, I may have a brief but complimentary new kinky audio to share with you soon!). You also won’t be able to speak to each other or to me during the event; this erotic-storytelling phone sex session is listen-only on your end. But that means that you can easily choose your poison tonight: to have me all to yourself, as some boys have done already, you can dial me as usual, to enjoy a custom-tailored, sweet and nasty phone sex call!

Then again, if you’ve always wanted to know what my work with sissybabies is all about, then joining my party-line event tonight is a low-commitment way to find out! Not to mention a sweet way to get more of my tantalizing voice. The show’s even divided into two 10-minute segments, each with a slightly different focus, so you can further fine-grain your choice of poisons. Just click the link at the bottom of this post to get more details on each portion, and on dialing in for the show.

Till soon, sweeties…

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Click for more details on tonight’s show, including instructions (in red) on how to dial in!

Of course, both of those kinks are too complicated to do real justice to in this single post—that’s why they each merit an entire blog’s worth of discussion, after all! But the two approaches to fetish phone sex have something substantially in common: they both involve a woman taking control in a way that the caller finds highly erotic, and sensual humiliation plays an important part in both. Still, my approach in each type of session reflects a somewhat different aspect of my sweet and nasty phone-sex approach.

As I see it, mindfucking always involves treating my caller as an adult…though one whom I nevertheless can (and always do!) run circles around, using my sophisticated and oh-so-deliciously unpredictable approach to erotic mindgames and teasing.

Of course, the theme of sauntering circles around my dazed caller is quite prominent in my calls with my adult babies (also known as “abies”) as well, but the core of those calls is that I don’t think of the caller as an adult—or even as one who should be allowed to indulge in any adult-style sensual gratification at all! Oh, no. Instead, much of my work with adult babies involves them succumbing (rarely with much delay, the adorable dears!) to my gentle insistence that they live out their desires to be treated as infants or small children. So for adult babies and sissybabies, their giving in is a fun prelude, but it’s not even close to being the end of the story.

So, I suppose that a broad difference in my handling of those fetishes lies in the amount of focus that I put into demonstrating how I outsmart my lucky callers. In their fetish phone sex sessions, adult babies may sometimes be naughty or cranky, but they rarely seek a dizzying series of attempts at matching wits with me as part of the call. By definition, they don’t (or can’t) put up much concerted resistance to my sensual humiliation. Instead, the adult-baby calls I do tend to be more focused on thoroughly detailing the end result that my babies crave—their complete babyfication!

My mindfucked boys and girlies, on the other hand, enjoy repeated demonstrations of my smartly gaining the upper hand as an integral part of the call. Compared with my adult babies, my mindfuckees are extra-focused on the mindgames, which for them are an exquisite and utterly necessary component of their extended verbal foreplay with me—for them, that part of the journey is also largely the destination!

But what makes both of those specialties such a fine match for me is this: whether I wrap a boy or girlie around my finger tenderly, or tempestuously, once I’ve caught you, you know that you’re exactly where you want to be. Regardless, really, of what kink it was that got you there.

And isn’t that just what every subby wants: to be outmatched by a woman whom you can never resist?

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Now, deep-thinking M. and I have shared some rather substantive conversations. After all, as I’ve noted before, cockteasing with me always begins at the mental level. In fact, many of you would say that that element is never absent from your sessions with me!

Mmm, it’s no wonder that you often tell me how deeply fulfilling your time with me is. How can it not be, when it caresses you on so many levels?

Speaking of gifts, I’ll share another that especially moved me. In fact, M., as a rather fine amateur poet himself, can probably appreciate this gesture: my adorable sissybaby Susie wrote me a very special piece to try and express her gratitude for our last sensual phone sex experience. I’ve gotten her permission to reprint it, and it will end this post.

First, though, as long as I’m mentioning my sissybabies and other adult babies, I’ll share a bit of news. Starting this week, I’ll resume posting regularly to my special blog just for them! What this means is that my blogging will now be spread among three locations: here (of course); my extraordinarily popular mindfucking blog (see the link in my signature!); and my adult-babies blog. Now that I’ll be sharing my energies more evenly among the three blogs, I’ll bet that all of my fans will be able to find something to interest them…

So, then, to Susie’s poem of appreciation! Be warned: it’s not overtly kinky, though certainly Susie’s experiences with me are! But it is a very special expression of just how meaningful your time with me can become.

And for those of you who are not fluffernutter (but perhaps wish you were so lucky!), you are still welcome to try and ingratiate yourselves. If you happen to see him in the chatroom, let him know I’d like to get an e-mail from him, and feel free to ask him to tell me who sent him. If he does, you’ll at least gain a few brownie points with me for your efforts…and who knows when those might come in handy for you!

But now to something that’s likely to excite an even broader swath among you: I have released a handful of new erotic audios just recently! These last few were targeted first and foremost to my sissybabies, but I’m bringing them up here because when I’ve blogged about such audios before, it’s always been fascinating to see just how many of you admit that you are surprised by how seductive you find some aspect of my approach.

Perhaps it’s the way that I pooh-pooh the fellow’s every attempt to prove his manliness…or maybe it’s just the way that I sound when cooing or giggling! Whatever the case, based on past experience, I’d like to recommend that if you haven’t heard any of my work in the sissybaby genre, you do take a listen at some point. You may discover something yourself that resonates for you in a surprising way—and that could really spice up your next call when added in just the perfect amount (whether a dollop or a whammy; you know I’m versatile enough to deftly handle either)!

Just check the links at the very bottom of this post to start your exploration…

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Listen to how I render a sissybaby helpless and to how I begin cuckolding a sissybaby (Part 1 and Part 2)

We do target this show particularly toward sissies as well as my beloved sissybabies every week, but I want to clear up a misconception. You see, some of you have fretted to me that perhaps you should steer clear of this Tuesday chat if you aren’t a member of one of those two fetish groups. But my dears, if you stay away for that reason alone, you’re missing out on quite a rollicking time—as any of those who drop in regularly will tell you!

As it turns out, the “Madcap Tea” theme that Ms. Tara and I set for the show has grandly fulfilled its purpose of being inclusive and welcoming for all who yearn for cleverly creative and kinky chat, in the style of a bizarre Alice in Wonderland scenario. Sure, you’ll find the aforementioned sissies and sissybabies attending, but you’ll also find grizzled and sleepless philosophers shuffling through, as well as space aliens, Victorian flutterbyes, orgasm-denial sufferers, talking crustaceans, tiny people (heights measured in inches instead of feet), and a tempting (and calorie-free!) assortment of teas, cocoa, and pastries every week.

For specifics on when and where you can find each of my weekly hosted chats, check my schedule page (look at the upper right-hand side of this page for the link). I promise, it’s not terribly hard to find either one—and even easier to find yourself having a smartly kinky time once you’re in! Just bring your imagination, and polish up your sense of humor…

By the way, a number of you have told me lately that you’ve had the tragic experience of calling in hopes of some scintillatingly intelligent phone sex with me…only to find that a luckier fellow caller has gotten me first! “You’re hard to reach”, reports N., “but I just don’t stop trying.” (And by the way, N., that’s terribly endearing—kudos to you for your persistence!)

Now, I realize that such experiences only add fuel to your sense of urgency about talking with me, so here’s news of a little treat that will soon be available on our phone lines: you’ll occasionally be able to hear me doing one of the hold messages that play while you are waiting for the dispatcher!

Still, what if getting a hint of my delicious voice there doesn’t exactly soothe your cravings to hear me live? Unfortunately for you, I do think that’s quite possible. And in that case, you’re right back to needing patience and self-discipline, aren’t you?

Funny thing…that’s just the way you know I like you best.

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The premise is that W. is the vampire who created me and has sent me out to find prey for the night. I’ve found a rather delicious-looking couple (Dave and Serena) and am experimenting, as a new vampire, with how to control them both simultaneously. My sexuality, of course, is the method I settle on:

“Thank you,” I say to her, staring into her eyes, and I kiss her deeply, running my hand over her back intimately. I’ve got her quite under my spell now, and she’s even more delicious that way. I take her limp hand, though she’s steady on her own feet for now, and I beckon to him. “You all could use an appetizer, couldn’t you?” And I smile, not showing my fangs, just radiating promise.

Just like that, they’re both up the stairs and in W.’s house. I take them upstairs, and midway up, he starts to voice a protest. I send her the rest of the way, and I stop to silence him with a finger on his lips. And I whisper in his ear, “she’s lovely…but it’s really you I want.”

As I step back, grinning inwardly, I see from the hope and lust in his eyes that that’s all he needed to hear. We head the rest of the way up the steps and meet her, Serena, in the bedchamber.

She’s already put on the flowing, black silk peignor I left for her. It fits perfectly, of course. And now she lies back on the bed and wantonly spreads her legs, with her eyes only for me. The folds of the peignoir still leaves some of her body to the imagination, but she hardly knows or cares that one erect nipple is already exposed by the slim strap that’s fallen off her right shoulder…

By the way, I know that I’ve not announced this week any new free audios of mine, so for those of you who are really jonesing for my voice again, I thought I’d offer a hot tip! You see, since midmonth, I have actually released a couple of adult baby–oriented audios, and both are completely complimentary! The one I just released tonight is from a script by my dear Annabelle, whom I’ve mentioned here before, and is more oriented toward sissybabies. However, both the audios involve entrapping a hapless would-be fellow in babydom of some sort. Find the links to both the audios below this post.

Click to find not only my forced-diapering audio but also my sissybaby training one, both on our free forums!

So first, I’d like to let you in on a new way to get an extra taste of me. I’ve been writing an additional blog on the side, and I think you all will really enjoy reading it. So click now to read my thoughts on mindfucking (and here’s a hint: I think most hot phone sex scenarios are built around a great mindfuck).

I’m also planning to offer a way to make finding out about me easier. That’s right—I’ve put an “About Mistress Natalie” page into the works for this site! When it’s ready, I’ll add its link to the top right-hand side of my site (which means it’ll get all cuddly with the link to my schedule page), and you’ll be able to check that new page to get info not only on my other blog sites but also on my favorite femdom fetishes and caller types, centralized for your delight.

Because open-minded exploration has been my theme for today, it’s a good time to mention that the Mistresses of LDW have declared August 16 this year to be World Sissy Day! We’re very excited about this, because we would love for our dear sissies (yes, including my beloved sissybabies) to have a holiday to support them in appreciating and accepting themselves and each other. So of course, we’re planning a party in our sissies chatroom that day. This one won’t be as heavy on contests as some of our chatroom events have been in the past—the goal of World Sissy Day is to give our sissies a big group hug and celebrate all of your identities, rather than elevating some of you above the others! So it’s a pride and love day, but nonsissies should feel especially welcome to join in on the fun.

To make up for the nonprize focus of WSD, I’ll close with a little audio treat! For those of you who have been awaiting the continuation of my Office Training series, I can tell you that part 2 has finally become available! To jog your memories, this is my strap-on training series, set very hotly in an executive office.

Want details on how I can do an e-mail version of phone sex with you? Just send me, well, e-mail with your questions! In general, just about any kind of call you might do with me can be converted to a paid e-mail format. So if you have a femdom fantasy that would work for phone sex, let me show you how we can take it to e-mail.

I do have a follow-up regarding my “Office Training” strap-on Mistress series that I first mentioned in a post back in June. That four-part series is slated to be available at our premium audio site, Mistress Always Wins. In fact, I had expected the last three parts to be there by the end of June. However, although those three are in the hands of our Webmistress, there will apparently be a bit more lag time before those appear on the site. But be patient, dears, and I’ll monitor for their appearance and blog about it (with a handy link, of course) when the other parts of the series are available for your listening ecstasy!

Speaking of things coming up, here’s my latest freebie for you: I’ll soon be available for a second scheduled hour of kinky chat each week! Ms. Tara and I have decided to join forces (we hit it off during the April Florida trip that I and several other Mistresses took!), and so starting next week, we’ll be co-hosting a chat hour, held in the sissies room within our suite of adult chatrooms!

As you all know, I already host my general chat hour, “Decadent Discourse with Mistress Natalie”, every Sunday at 4pm Eastern in our main chatroom. So this new show will be an addition to my schedule, and Ms. Tara and I have dubbed it “Tea with Milk and Cookies”. Ms. Tara loves sissies, and I just love sissybabies, so if you are one of those sweeties, this show is especially for you! So come and see us at 7pm Eastern each Tuesday.

However, no need to feel left out if you are not a sissy or sissybaby. You are still welcome to join us, though you’ll be expected to mind your manners and recognize the specialized nature of this chat. But beyond that, well, the more witty company there is, the better any chat experience will be, so bring your friendly and naughty selves and prepare to be entertained!