As far as my schedule is concerned, I’ll be working a very reduced schedule through Tuesday, while I am in Vegas. Details will be on my schedule page, as always, so click there for details, cuties. Or, you can at least rest assured that you’ll be able to find your favorite phone-sex Mistress when I’m back in town and working my full schedule as of next Wednesday.

Speaking of my schedule, as my regular boys and girlies know, I usually take Thursdays off from blowing your minds with my cockteasing wiles. However, after my return from Sin City, I will be available for calls this coming Thursday—again, check the details on my schedule page!

You’re getting agitated already, aren’t you, just imagining what the most intelligent phone-sex femdoms on the Web have up our sleeves for the Vegas Strip? I know, don’t you just wish you were coming along to be allowed to, perhaps, get naked for us? Mmm, that would be really blow your minds, wouldn’t it…a cabal of gorgeous dominant women surrounding you, making you unable to do anything but masturbate helplessly, over and over, as you gazed yearningly at first one of us, then another? Yes, I can just hear your moans and whimpers now, as you imagine the exquisitely sensual humiliation.

But alas, poor dears—instead, you’ll just have to stay tuned here for details of what we got up to! Although in the meantime, you have my permission to practice whimpering…

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That’s right, my show “Decadent Discourse” offers a marvelously open-minded atmosphere that takes everyone’s opinion into account…and adds twists and turns to provoke you into…thinking harder (mmm).

Just ask chatter A.T.P. (those are the initials of his chat username, of course!), who said at the end of one recent episode, “Thank you—this was one of the best chats I’ve seen here.” Or chatter P.L., who wrote me an IM after another episode to comment, “It was great to be able to ponder and discuss my personal kinks without being judged… I’m still thinking about stuff…” Or even my girlie M.N., who told me during a recent session of sensual humiliation how much she appreciates my going beyond the usual chat banter during my show, to encourage my participants to think more deeply about their fetish! Recent topics have included whether it’s sexier for a Mistress to command or earn your respect; whether being cuckolded or denied makes you more devoted to a Mistress; and whether a Mistress can actually cause you to develop a fetish you didn’t (think that you?) used to have.

How can you find this chat? It’s held every Sunday at 4pm Eastern, and you can catch it entirely for free in our adult chatrooms! Once you’ve entered your chosen screen name, just head into the Special Events room, to enjoy a full hour of smartly cockteasing, penetrating (mmm) discussion on my topic of the week. You can find that topic shown on my IM status message during the chat, or it also is shown in the room greeting, which prints in red when you first enter the Special Events room.

And if you can’t regularly make that particular timeslot live? No worries, because most weeks, I’ll be providing a forums version of “Decadent Discourse”! Sometime over any given weekend, I’ll start a thread in our complimentary forums on the topic that was discussed in the chatroom on Sunday, and you’ll have a chance to comment there, whether to follow up on the chatroom discussion or because you couldn’t it to the show! Either way, the threads will remain open indefinitely, so you can always stop back by and add more thoughts…or read what your fellow kinksters have to say!

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I’ve blogged about C. a number of times—after all, his delicious conflictedness around his cravings for cock makes him eminently teaseworthy! Now, as does happen with some of my devoted boys and girlies, C. periodically develops fears that as his forced-bi Mistress, I wield too much control over his emotions, not to mention his libido. So he sometimes pulls back, to try and clear his head, as he puts it. (Understandable, certainly…though then again, most all my fans know that every adult phone chat with me can in fact be surgingly “head-clearing”—in a magnificently naughty way!)

This time, C. had been pulling back since before my trip to Vegas. He’d even been trying to remain chaste, in a bid (hm, futile? you decide!) to reclaim some sense of autonomy over his rampant desires. However, as a devoted boy of mine, he stayed lightly in touch, and so I was aware that he was planning a vacation of his own this past week. I also knew that by heavily restricting his frequency of contact with me—most especially by heroically not calling for his fix of my luscious voice—C. actually was managing to remain chaste.

So it was that he headed to his vacation destination, a somewhat remote beachfront hotel where he planned to continue the process of getting in touch with himself.

But he was in for quite a surprise, and a most scrumptious one from my point of view!

My sweet C. arrived at his long-anticipated destination to find that the hotel was…hosting a weeklong cheerleading competition, to continue throughout his stay. In fact, those cheerleaders dominated the hotel. C. described that perhaps only half a dozen other guests were similarly unaffiliated with their group.

And so of course, hotly tempting cheerleaders were everywhere that poor C. went: walking through the lobby in their tiny uniforms; sharing the small elevator with him; and sauntering or sunbathing in skimpy bikinis, often 10 to a row, while he tried to relax on the beach.

(I think you can already see why I so loved this story, cuties.)

Poor C. quickly discovered that his willpower disappeared exactly overnight in the face of this onslaught of temptation. That’s right: his hard-won (heh) chastity lasted just 1 day into his vacation. Instead, he soon was in his room several times a day, his pumping hand frantically expressing his frustrated desires. He reports that he even tried to call me from his room…but lacking Internet access, he repeatedly guessed our number incorrectly. So after reaching a laundry service, a machine shop, and an insurance company, he again had to admit the futility of his efforts—though at least he could then return to stroking with both hands!

And I? Well, I was not in the slightest displeased to hear C.’s woeful tale. As I quite freely admit, I revel in the magic of sensual humiliation, and I love it as a tool for heightening my boys and girlies’ experiences of submissive ecstasy. Really, what better cumuppance (as I always like to put it!) for any fan of mine who’s bold enough to believe that the control of his sex drive might still be all his?

As for C., he certainly enjoyed a most erotic rekindling of our sweet and nasty phone sex relationship upon his return! In other words, perhaps the only point he managed to prove was this: absence from me only makes your cock (and in C.’s case, his orifices as well) grow yet riper for my eventual re-taking. So very yummy…

Note it well then, cuties—you can try and escape my cockteasing ways, but don’t be surprised if you are shockingly, inexorably brought back under my spell. Then again, with phone-sex experiences as rich as the one C. was treated to on his return, you’d hardly have much reason to complain!

So you decide, my dears: is that, perhaps, all that really matters?

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Of course, both of those kinks are too complicated to do real justice to in this single post—that’s why they each merit an entire blog’s worth of discussion, after all! But the two approaches to fetish phone sex have something substantially in common: they both involve a woman taking control in a way that the caller finds highly erotic, and sensual humiliation plays an important part in both. Still, my approach in each type of session reflects a somewhat different aspect of my sweet and nasty phone-sex approach.

As I see it, mindfucking always involves treating my caller as an adult…though one whom I nevertheless can (and always do!) run circles around, using my sophisticated and oh-so-deliciously unpredictable approach to erotic mindgames and teasing.

Of course, the theme of sauntering circles around my dazed caller is quite prominent in my calls with my adult babies (also known as “abies”) as well, but the core of those calls is that I don’t think of the caller as an adult—or even as one who should be allowed to indulge in any adult-style sensual gratification at all! Oh, no. Instead, much of my work with adult babies involves them succumbing (rarely with much delay, the adorable dears!) to my gentle insistence that they live out their desires to be treated as infants or small children. So for adult babies and sissybabies, their giving in is a fun prelude, but it’s not even close to being the end of the story.

So, I suppose that a broad difference in my handling of those fetishes lies in the amount of focus that I put into demonstrating how I outsmart my lucky callers. In their fetish phone sex sessions, adult babies may sometimes be naughty or cranky, but they rarely seek a dizzying series of attempts at matching wits with me as part of the call. By definition, they don’t (or can’t) put up much concerted resistance to my sensual humiliation. Instead, the adult-baby calls I do tend to be more focused on thoroughly detailing the end result that my babies crave—their complete babyfication!

My mindfucked boys and girlies, on the other hand, enjoy repeated demonstrations of my smartly gaining the upper hand as an integral part of the call. Compared with my adult babies, my mindfuckees are extra-focused on the mindgames, which for them are an exquisite and utterly necessary component of their extended verbal foreplay with me—for them, that part of the journey is also largely the destination!

But what makes both of those specialties such a fine match for me is this: whether I wrap a boy or girlie around my finger tenderly, or tempestuously, once I’ve caught you, you know that you’re exactly where you want to be. Regardless, really, of what kink it was that got you there.

And isn’t that just what every subby wants: to be outmatched by a woman whom you can never resist?

Mistress Natalie
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Now, as you know, I often offer shout-outs to the boys and girlies who spend some memorably naughty phone time with me. And I’ve got another shout-out to give today, though it’s for our own hotly wicked Ms. Lauren, with whom I shared a 2-Mistress call this evening. She and I have quite complementary tastes—and in this call in particular, that played out perfectly.

You see, our boy wanted to be giggled at for being not only a cuckold but also the pitiable owner of an itty-bitty member. (And it’s obvious, isn’t it, that that had much to do with why his hot wife started sleeping with her studly boss in the first place?) Now, Ms. Lauren especially loves to work on the inadequately endowed, so together we really put that poor boy through the gamut of sensual humiliation! And now I offer cheers to her for being such a fine partner in his…cumuppance.

So, sweethearts, I hope you all are having some glorious December holidays and looking forward to greeting the New Year with a bang! I know I certainly am. In fact, I’ll be taking New Year’s Eve off, in order to be here to ring in 2009 with you in the sexiest of ways. That’s right: this coming week, I will be making one of my uncommon Thursday appearances! Check my schedule (the link’s on the upper right-hand side of this page) to find out exactly when I’ll be here that day. What better way to start off a new year, after all, than by having one of your fantasies brought to thrillingly steamy life by your favorite femdom Mistress?

I’m looking forward to our intimate chats on January 1, my yummy darlings…

Mistress Natalie
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