The fantasy of being feminized is actually a rather common one in the phone sex world.  Now, it may not be all that ‘common’ in so-called mainstream porn, and . . . → Read More: Feminization Fantasies in the Real World]]>

I’ve talked before about the line between fantasy and reality as regards cock sucking, but today, we’re going to go after another fun fantasy: Feminization.

The fantasy of being feminized is actually a rather common one in the phone sex world.  Now, it may not be all that ‘common’ in so-called mainstream porn, and it definitely doesn’t show up much in the mainstream media, but I think that’s more to do with societal pressure than with how prevalent the fantasy actually is. I’m not going to go into the psycho sexual theory behind feminization for men, other than to say it’s super interesting and very up my alley; what I am going to talk about is how to move from a fantasy of being femme to the reality of femaleness.

The move from fantasy to reality can be fraught with insecurity and uncertainty.

One of the first things you should take into account when deciding to move from a fantasy of being a girl to the reality of going out dressed en femme is your own state of mind. Gender play, genderbending and crossdressing are all things that are tons of fun. However, playing these games can lead to some not-so-fun consequences. If you’re feeling fragile over the idea of dressing and going public, you should be aware that negative feedback from the people around you can knock you for a loop, psychologically speaking. Take care not to expose yourself to too much scaring, damaging interactions!

What I’m saying here is pick your audience carefully!

When you dress up all sexy, slutty, girly or cute, pick who you show that look off to with great care. A super venue for showing off your look is your local gay bars drag night. I know, you’re not going for gay guys, you’re not looking for a hookup, you just want to have fun! But, your first night out as a girl? Go where the other girls go. Get to know your community, build yourself a posse, and work on your confidence and moves before you decide to go to the local kicker bar for a beer and some line dancing.

Disclaimer for those from more liberal areas:

It’s entirely possible that my advice is erring on the side of caution. I remind you all, I live in Texas, one of the most homophobic, conservative, and, well, intolerant states in the US.  When I tell you to choose your venue, I’m thinking of my local area and the inhabitants likely reaction to a lovely sissy showing up. Think like a girl, girls: Put your own personal safety above everything else. If your instincts are telling you it’s a dangerous scene, slip out of those heels and get ready to GTFO.

And, after you go out dancing all night long, flirting and having tons of fun, call Me!

I want to share in your joy and bliss.

Next up in the reality/fantasy series: Anal play. You know you’re intrigued…

In the world of phone sex, the LDW group has consistently set the bar higher and higher, adding new features and striving to provide the very best in erotic entertainment. To that end, the Empire was born. Never before had a phone sex company attempted . . . → Read More: Phone Sex Empire Reaches New Heights]]>

The Enchantrix Empire has reached a milestone: 3,000 members!

In the world of phone sex, the LDW group has consistently set the bar higher and higher, adding new features and striving to provide the very best in erotic entertainment. To that end, the Empire was born. Never before had a phone sex company attempted to provide customers and potential customers so much access, at no charge, mind you, to it’s elite cadre of sexy sirens.

The Enchantrix Empire is an adult social networking site for a very specific niche.

What niche? Well, all the people in the world who love sex, erotica and phone sex. From the lovers of cock control to the small penis humiliation afficianados and back around to sweet silly sissies and girly panty bois, the Empire has something for everyone. There are groups for every fetish and wank fantasy, countless polls ranging from silly to thoughtful and of course, the profiles. Let your freak flag fly as high as you want with your Empire profile, and see how many Mistresses you can get to leave love notes for you!

There’s so much to the Empire!

You can have your very own blog on the Empire, talking about anything you feel like sharing! Want to talk about your cock? How about gushing about the shoe sale you found and the awesome heels you scored for a great price? Want advice on choosing a good anal toy? How about some funny jokes or the latest viral video? It’s all on the Empire.

Oh, did I forget to mention the Mistresses?

Oopsy. Well, we’re all on the Empire, too. I’m there, and my blog for the Empire has a more relaxed vibe to it than my ‘official portal to the world’ here. You can see my polls, videos I’ve shared, and you can even message me through the Empire. Heck, you can connect just as deeply with any of the Mistresses of LDW on the Empire. Go on, join up! And send me a friend request there…

Her word choice, phrasing, any colloquialisms used as well as how elevated or educated she seems to speak all speak to the reader about the Mistress. For instance, in my profile (Mistress Harper), you can tell that I’m . . . → Read More: Behind the Scenes With Your Phone Sex Mistress]]>

The astute reader will be able to read a lot into a phone sex Mistress’s profile.

Her word choice, phrasing, any colloquialisms used as well as how elevated or educated she seems to speak all speak to the reader about the Mistress. For instance, in my profile (Mistress Harper), you can tell that I’m a bit of a sexual advocate, that I’m all about female power and sexuality and that I hold strong opinions. Mistress Ryan is an eloquent changeling who’ll take over every aspect of your cock, controlling you and molding you to her will.

You can look to a Mistress’s blog for more insight into her mind.

Kinky Empress Simone has a serious love for cuckolds, presents and being pampered! The super sexy Mistress Olivia is cerebral, well informed and hot as hell. If you go through the list of Mistress blogs on the side bar on the right, you’ll find 70+ Mistresses, laid bare for your delectation and inspection. You can learn a LOT about a Mistress from the things she writes about!

And there’s one more place to look for insight into your Mistress.

I was talking to a longtime caller for the company, and he mentioned that before there were blogs, you got to know your Mistress by looking at her… Amazon wishlist. And you know, he’s right! The things we Mistresses lust after, ask for, list as joyful things we’d love to have can tell you an awful awful lot about us. Take Simone’s wishlist, for example… bath products, jewelry, and I see that she’s a Harry Potter fan! (omg, can’t wait for the final movie!!!) Olivia’s wishlist reveals that she’s into healthy living, she likes music and movies, and has an interesting thing going on with Ice T. lol!

So what does my wishlist tell you?

Let’s see… I’m an artist with a serious fascination with Prismacolor products, I love the color red, I have a coffee habit, like high end sex toys and have a ‘thing’ about poetry. What else can you discern about me from my wishlist? (and I’ve been going through adding comments to everything… the funny ones start on page two, fyi.)

Welcome, welcome, to Mistress Harper’s church of phone sex, where all who enter in are controlled.

The demons, yes, I say, the demons that have plauged you, tormented you, burnt through your self control, the very demons of Lust and Sex, the demons that run after you crying and taunting you, those demons, . . . → Read More: Sunday Morning Cock Control]]>

Welcome, welcome, to Mistress Harper’s church of phone sex, where all who enter in are controlled.

The demons, yes, I say, the demons that have plauged you, tormented you, burnt through your self control, the very demons of Lust and Sex, the demons that run after you crying and taunting you, those demons, through the grace of our Mistress and Owner Harper, the great and divine Priestess of Sacred Sex, will no longer trouble you! Accept the control and guidance of your Divine Mistress and be Freed!

You can probably tell that I have roots in a rather, ah, florid and verbose style of a certain religion.

After all, all four of my great grandfathers were Ministers (except for the one who was a Reverend.) Now there’s me, descended from spiritual people, steeped in the folk beliefs of the deep South and East Texas. I’m fairly certain that in some ways, my ancestors would be shocked. And, at the same time, I bet they’d just shake their heads and say ‘that figures.’

The women in my family have a history of interesting and unique behavior.

We’ve always been so-called Scarlet Women, women of sight; and it’s a family truism that you just don’t ~mess~ with one of us. What we say goes. It’s always been this way, down through the ages. The women set the rules and guide and control the men. Family tradition dictates that the woman is the one who is strong, controlled, and always right. So I come by it naturally. I was born to be a fem dom!

Therefore, come to my church, the Church of Sex and Lust.

I’ll control your cock, own your soul and make your life better. I know what you really want and need, and hearing you try to deny it is amusing to me. Let me guide you, help you, and heal your lustful desires… you’ll be happier in the long run, just like every male who’s ever had anything to do with one of the powerful women of my family.

LDW, as a company, is committed to finding only the very best Mistresses in the world. Nothing less will do. Only the most awesome, amazing, intelligent women could possibly be a LDW Mistress; you would not believe the vetting and . . . → Read More: New Mistresses on Board]]>

In the world of high end phone sex, finding a good Mistress is key.

LDW, as a company, is committed to finding only the very best Mistresses in the world. Nothing less will do. Only the most awesome, amazing, intelligent women could possibly be a LDW Mistress; you would not believe the vetting and interview process we each go through to get in the door. There is no greater cadre of powerful Dominatrixes in the world.

In our constant quest to improve ourselves and the company, as well as building a better experience for each and every client, we’ve added new, hot, fresh blood.

I’d like to introduce Ms Olga. I had a chance to chat with her, and hear her voice today, and let me tell you, she sounds so sweet! Mistress Sasha is also brand new, sure to delight your puny cock with her wiley ways. Miss Callie has been a sex kitten eager to control cocks from the very beginning of her sexual awakening (plus, she’s hot.)

Domina Bree is the exotic Goddess you’ve been looking for, and I for one can’t wait to hear more from her! Hot dayum, ya’ll. Lady Kaitlyn has some special torment up her sleeve for you; tread carefully with this one, or you’ll be trapped. And then there’s sweet, naive, young Tabetha. Oh, wait, I meant controlling, domineering, sexy Tabetha. mmm, Tabetha…

Last but by no means least is lifestyle Mistress Sierra. Look out gentlemen, she’s here to dominate you, own you, control you and break you down to your component parts. Sounds like fun!

All this new blood, new talent, fresh voices and minds interjected into the LDW community.

Welcome to all the new Mistresses! I’d like to wish you all the best of luck, and may you have as many happy, fun, torturous encounters with our clients as you like. We surely do have the best job in the whole world, with the most wonderful client base ever. You’re going to get to meet our guys, from Toy to NB, Ashley, CandyGurl and Trixie, my darling Mr. B and more! Hold on to your hats, it’s a fun ride.

In fact, it’s become your go to masturbation fantasy. Bored at work? Wank to the idea of a nice hot cock sliding between your lips. Can’t sleep? Jerk it while thinking of the taste of cum across your tongue. It’s all . . . → Read More: Fantasy vs. Reality Cocksucking]]>

You’ve thought about and fantasized about sucking cocks for quite a while now.

In fact, it’s become your go to masturbation fantasy. Bored at work? Wank to the idea of a nice hot cock sliding between your lips. Can’t sleep? Jerk it while thinking of the taste of cum across your tongue. It’s all you think about now — even when you try to fuck your wife!

So you think you’re ready to take the plunge and suck a cock in real life.

All the practice, the hot fantasies, the hour long phone sex sessions going over it all, again and again, and you feel ready. You feel good about it. The reality of kneeling in front of some strange guy, sucking a cock and slurping up a hot load of cum is really starting to get to you.

There is a world of difference between sucking a cock in your fantasies and getting intimate with a flesh and blood cock.

Let me be very very clear here: in our fantasy lives we can do anything we think up. We can be the biggest sluts and whores on the planet, open to every cock that comes our way, eagerly sucking just as many as our demanding Mistress puts in front of us. In reality? There are a few wee little issues that need to be taken into account.

R.A.C.K. Risk Aware Consensual Kink

In reality, you need to be aware of the risks associated with any activity you undertake. When you start thinking about heading to the Adult Bookstore to find the gloryhole, you best think a bit first about what level of risk you’re willing to place yourself in. Also, you need to really think about what level of risk you’re willing to expose your loved ones to. What are you bringing home to your dearly beloved that she (or he) didn’t sign up for?

Reality has a few perks: the dick check.

Should you decide to approach a professional working girl (or guy), you’ll quickly discover that the pros do a little something called a “dick check.” Before you get naked and nasty, you get an examination. This is something that anyone can learn to do, and I think you should do a dick check before you engage in any risky behaviors. In essence, check out that cock; look for redness, swelling, funny bumps, lumps, rashes, odd discharges and weird smells. If it doesn’t look, feel and smell like a healthy cock, don’t do anything with it.

If that cock looks good to you, all nice and healthy, pretty and making your mouth water, proceed to the joy of the condom. I highly reccomend theSkyn brand condoms; they transmit heat and sensation well, are compatible with water based lubes and are non-latex for the allergic among us. To put the condom on with your mouth (recommended), unwrap the condom and place the tip in your mouth. While using your lips and tongue to create suction on the tip to ‘pinch’ the air out, use one hand to steady the cock. Dip your head towards the cock and, using your lips and tongue, roll the condom on. When you bottom out, use your hand to smoothly roll the condom the rest of the way onto the cock. To avoid sucking the condom right back off the cock, hold it on at the base of the cock (this also helps steady the cock, making cocksucking that much easier.)

For all your fantasy phone sex cocksucking needs, contact the Ladies of LDW; remember, play safe out there!

And you’re not alone. Bummer. No calling up your Domina for some hot and heavy phone sex, because if you make the slightest peep, you’re busted. And that would be no bueno and a horrible buzzkill to boot. But, there you are. . . . → Read More: The Joy of Sext]]>

There you are, horny, aching, needing the tender mercies of your Mistress.

And you’re not alone. Bummer. No calling up your Domina for some hot and heavy phone sex, because if you make the slightest peep, you’re busted. And that would be no bueno and a horrible buzzkill to boot. But, there you are. Horny as hell, aching, needing her guidance and control, reading her blog and getting more and more desperate.

You really really want Her words, you NEED Her words, to control your cock…

What’s a poor horny strokerboy to do? You can’t be expected to control your own cock, I mean, hell, you’ve been trying that for years and look how well that’s worked out for you. You need the guidance and control, the sweet sultry words, the imagination and wit of your Mistress! As much as you want to just rub one out and pass out for the night, or whack off in the office bathroom, you know that won’t be nearly as satisfying as what She can help you achieve.

The more you think about how much you need your phone sex Mistress, the hornier and more desperate you get.

If only there were a way to connect with your guide, your muse, your beloved Mistress that didn’t involve speaking. Hmm. There must be a way… Yes! There is! Of course! Sexy Texting!

You’re so horny now that you’re willing to try anything, even Sexting.

All the youngsters are doing it these days, why not give it a whirl? Maybe you tried it with a girlfriend, maybe you sent one red faced embarrasing text to your significant other, maybe you’ve never ever experienced the wonder of written porn. (Maybe you’re an old pro at this, and think all this lead up is silly.)

Let me tell you, if you’ve been enjoying reading Mistress blogs, if you like to chat via IM with us, and if you have an itch needing a good denial session to really ramp it up, then you’re going to adore sexy texting. It’s just like phone sex, only instead of talking on the phone, we chat via IM, in a very, very X rated manner. You’ve got the full attention of one of LDW’s brilliant Ladies coming at you at 80+ words per minute. Feel free to type one handed, or to just fall silent and enjoy the input streaming towards you.

Sexy texting, sexting, the Joy of Sext…

You’ll be hooked on it in no time!

Because I can, that’s why.

Let’s get into this a little bit more deeply, tho, shall we? Let’s exlore the why, the how and a little bit about exactly  how helpless you are to stop me. You want all these details you . . . → Read More: I’m going to make you suck cock]]>

No, really, I am. I’m going to make you a seduced cocksucker.

Because I can, that’s why.

Let’s get into this a little bit more deeply, tho, shall we? Let’s exlore the why, the how and a little bit about exactly  how helpless you are to stop me. You want all these details you see, because you’re curious, and that curiosity plays right into my plans.

Why are you going to call me up for some hot, steamy coerced cocksucker phone sex?

Because you’re curious. You’ve thought about it enough, and wondered about it, and now you just really want to ~know~. And because I think tricking you, seducing you, coercing you into kneeling down and taking a hot, thick cock in your sweet puckered lips is just about the sexiest thing in the world. I want to see you open up, vulnerable and wanting; I want you emotional and soft and totally undone. You want it too.

How am I going to talk you into being a good sissy cocksucker for me?

Have I mentioned that I’m damn good at my job? I can make getting on your knees and being a total fag for me sound like the hottest thing you’ve ever heard of. And you’ll want to make me happy, I mean, you already want me to be happy… and watching you swallow down a big load of another man’s cum makes me very very happy. Between your own inquisitiveness and my ability to sell ice to an Eskimo, you’ll be on your knees in no time flat.

You will wind up a seduced cocksucker for me.

There’s nothing in the world that will stop it. Eventually, some day, you’ll be so curious, so turned on, so eager to please your Mistress that you won’t be able to stop yourself. You’ll agree, you’ll kneel, you’ll open your mouth for me. And I’ll smile at you, and pet your hair, and tell you how pleased I am, how happy. My lover will stand before you, erect cock ready for your attentions, and you’ll shuffle forward on your knees. You’ll take his cock, so hot and stiff, different from your own, and you’ll kiss it, lick it, suck it. Knowing that I’m watching you, that I’m turned on, getting off on the show you’re putting on for me, just adds to the experience.

Oh, yes, you’ll suck a cock for me, and you’ll learn to love it.

That’s my cock, and you’ll stroke it how I tell you to. You’ll do everything I tell you to do, because you want to please your Mistress. I want to guide you to a mind blowing orgasm — . . . → Read More: Guided Masturbation]]>

It makes sense that if I own you, I should get to guide you too.

That’s my cock, and you’ll stroke it how I tell you to. You’ll do everything I tell you to do, because you want to please your Mistress. I want to guide you to a mind blowing orgasm — take you places you’ve never been…

Poor males, so sad and unimaginative; you don’t even really play with your own cocks!

It seems that men tend to learn one way to masturbate, and that’s all they ever do. Day in and day out, the same strokes, the same touches… doesn’t it get so ~boring~?

I mean, you have this amazing bundle of nerves to play with, to experiment with! You can tease and you can tug and you can gently stroke. You can vary it and change your routine, you can use the energy you put into masturbation to create such ecstasy for yourselves!

And what do you do with all this amazing potential? You wank.

You poor, deluded, weak male. It sure is a good thing that I own your sweet ass. And your cock. Say it with me now, “Ms. Harper owns my cock; she can tell me how to stroke it best.” I own your cock.

You know that I can lead you to the most intensely orgasmic experience of your life. And you want me to, don’t you?

Well, darlings, I’m afraid you’re going to have to learn some self restraint.

I’m going to be out of touch until late on Wednesday, because I’m taking some ‘me’ time. I’ve earned it, I deserve it. I packed my suitcase about half an hour ago, and I packed up my box easel and all my paints. I plan to paint, go fishing and walk in the woods. It’ll be glorious and wonderful and utterly lacking in any cock at all to control! So by the time I get back, I’ll be desperate to hear your gasps, moans and cries of bliss… after all, I love phone sex, too.

xoxo,

already missing you! Harper