If you’re a fella, you know all about stroking your cock.
You stroke all the damn time, don’t you? Wake up, stroke. Shower, stroke. Lunch break, stroke. Every opportunity to touch yourself you just jump all over. Constant masturbation in search of a fleeting orgasm, and then it’s back to your every day grind again. The times when you have your hand on your dick are the only times you feel even slightly pleasant, and when it’s over, you’re back to the same old, same old.
It’s because you’re not stroking for your Mistress.
You stroke for yourself, for a momentary escape from your life. But you are focused on the wrong things, darlings. You’re escaping, instead of immersing. You’re avoiding reality when you masturbate, instead of facing it square on and really reveling in it. You don’t have a higher purpose to your masturbation, and therefore it becomes as meaningless and empty as all the rest of your life.
What you need to do is dedicate yourself and your cock to something.
Or to someone.
Mystics and spiritualists have said it over and over again, in so many different languages and phrases. To find a higher purpose and move beyond yourself is the path towards the divine experience. And anything can be a part of your vehicle, part of your practice. Take something mundane and ordinary, and by dedicating it to someone outside yourself, you instantly elevate your practice to the next level.
Dedicate your cock to your Mistress.
Every sexual act will become an act of reverence and dedication. Every stroke, every touch, every delayed or denied orgasm will move you into a world of intense sensation. When that’s not your cock you’re stroking, when you must take care of that cock for your Mistress, when you must remain mindful at every moment of your submission to your Mistress, each moment of every day becomes filled with that numinous lightness.
Dedicate your cock to Me.
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Ms. Harper – Gotta say I love this. To take something that is almost overlooked because it is so common place and elevate it to a higher level – to that of a calling even is simply genius. You gave stroking not only a purpose but a higher purpose – a dedication worthy of a mistress.
I am ~all~ about finding meaning in the mundane. After all, the delicious state of enlightenment is fleeting, so you’ve gotta chase it in every moment. And finding it in sexual acts is so often overlooked. That something so common to all humans, the act of masturbation, can be used to bring bliss and joy… It’s a no-brainer, and yet often overlooked. I think there’s this idea that touching your junk is dirty and nasty, when it can be sacred, too.
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Ms. Harper, this is excellent advice to all those stroker boys. I usually resort to a well designed chastity program, but this is something I am going to really focus on. It makes perfect sense, really. Stroking now is not all about themselves, but pleasing a beautiful, strong, sexy Mistress.
They need to take care of their cock for their Mistress and now have a higher purpose. It’s no longer mundane, or out of habit. Great blog, my wise Mistress friend!
Finding the divine in every day moments is something I strive for myself; I tend to use my personal ‘me time’ to focus on myself, my own divinity. I’m in favor of having other folks also focus on me, at least until they can focus on themselves as divine and wonderful and awesome too. Bootstraps, and you gotta use the tools at hand (hurr, hurr, so to speak.)
And man, doing things that should be so pleasurable and amazing out of mindless habit just. augh! That could be an act of beauty, pleasure, devotion, and instead it’s just a quick escape from reality. Yes, sometimes that’s what you need, but when that’s what it always is?