Harper knows you. 800 356 6169So you want to be feminized, but you don’t know where to start.

One of the best things about feminization is that it encourages deep introspection and even deeper contemplation of the feminine life experience. Obviously, I’m a bit biased, in that I am female; even so, I really do think being feminine is simply the best. Females get to be more openly emotional, we get pretty makeup and nail polish, and we get the best clothes. Our life experience is so drastically different from the male experience that folks who are steeped in that male experience wind up utterly lost when it comes to feminization.

I always recommend calling in a professional.

Whether you’ve got a pest issue, a leaky water heater or a broken car, a professional will get you better results, faster, than if you try to fix things by yourself. Goodness knows my foray into auto repair did not end well. (Some kinds of antifreeze will literally eat an aluminum engine block. I know this now, through painful experience.) It stands to figure that calling in a professional to help guide you towards feminization would be your best bet for optimal results.

But, you’re stubborn and want to go it all alone.

Never fear, I’ve got some advice for solo feminization! Let’s start with the bare basics and go from there.

I like to go from the skin out when designing a feminization program, so you’re gonna need to ditch the Old Spice, Arm & Hammer, and Irish Spring. You need some Dove, Nivea, and maybe even some Herbal Essences. That’s right, you’re leaving the woody pine scents behind and picking up the fruity, the floral, the feminine. I want you to smell like a girl.

From the skin, we move out one layer, to the undergarments!

You need panties. I’ve already spoken about picking panties for sissies and feminization aficionados so go read that first. Don’t worry about anything else, just go pick out some panties to wear under your male clothes. You’ll adore the way you feel in them.

I’m a fan of starting you out with things that can be hidden or disguised.

That said, let’s look at those legs of yours. The hair has got to go. You’re gonna need to shave. Don’t worry, it’s a skill you can pick up with a little practice. Be careful around the knees, you’ll nick yourself if you’re not careful there. From the legs, let’s check those tootsies. One quick way to transform you from having scaly gross man feet to sweet feminized feet is to have a pedicure; if you don’t want to go out for that, do a home job. Paint your nails in a nice bright color, something to make yourself smile! Red, pink, pale purple, any pastel really…

And of course, because I dislike things existing in a vacuum:

Once you’re totally femmed up, I want you to call me and tell me all about it! I know you want to do solo feminization, but darling, you know you’ll want to show off. Let me see you all pretty and girly, and we can talk about all sorts of fun girl stuff.

xoxo, Harper